Passion. Purpose. Presence.

Summer 2011

2011-08-10T18:21:00.002-04:00

It's been a hot one! Not only with the weather, but all that's going on in our lives! The boys have finally finished up their baseball seasons, and have begun football practices. Tate won out the quarterback position for the Apopka Tiny Mites and Spencer is gearing up for JV at his new high school in Mt. Dora. Colton has decided to attend Lake Sumter community college near home and major in business management. Kim is doing great these days and we are all keeping extremely busy with LIFE Church of Mt. Dora! God has been very good to us all and we are excited about what the future holds! I hope to blog more in the future... time will tell.

Spring 2011

2011-03-19T10:25:00.003-04:00

I can't believe it's already the middle of March and I haven't blogged since December! Where does the time go? That may be a question more and more people are asking these days. So many wonderful things have been happening this spring... with the family being busy in school and work and church and extracurricular activities.

The boys are doing great! Colton is playing baseball for the high school and planning on graduating in June! I am so proud of him with all of his accomplishments. Spencer is preparing to exit middle school and enter high school next year. His involvement in school music groups, sports, and church keep him pretty busy. He has the lead in this year's musical production at school. They are doing High School Musical (from the TV series), and he's pumped up about it all! Tate is loving all that life has to bring. I've never seen an eight year old who has experienced so much fun and excitement in their lives as Tate has. Kim is recovering well from her auto accident last spring. The latest doctor's visit produced encouraging results and God is still performing healing in her situation.

The relocation of my music school from Oviedo to Mt. Dora has really gone well and picked up a lot since the first of the year. And for that, I am very thankful. Many people are coming through the doors each week, and several of them are continuing to visit LIFE Church! We're finding tremendous favor within the city and people are extremely kind to our efforts. God is amazing us and sending blessings on every hand. We average in the high 50's each week with our all-time high being 62 in attendance! I expect to break that by Easter since each week new families are visiting with us. To God be the glory!

Happy Holidays

2010-12-26T19:39:00.003-05:00

So much can be said about the holidays. But I'm having so much fun and enjoying these days together, I'll have to blog about them later I guess. All I will say is, when everyone in your family says how this year is the best year ever, and this Christmas was the best one they could ever remember; then it's settled. This holiday season is simply the best! The Graham's wish you all a very happy holiday season!

Slow Down

2010-12-03T21:57:00.003-05:00

I can't remember the last time all of our family spent the evening at home together without any interruptions or something to do. We are usually busy playing music, teaching music, playing whichever sport is in season, and fulfilling our responsibility of getting the boys to and from their practices or games. I'm unsure how we got so lucky tonight, but here we are, all together around the lighted Christmas tree, while enjoying one another and counting our blessings. Here's a rundown of tonight's activities:

- We made vegetable beef soup and grilled cheese sandwiches on the George Foreman grill.
- The boys and I rehearsed the worship set for Sunday morning's service while the soup was cooking on the stove.
- We're constantly switching channels between Celtics vs. Bulls NBA game and WWE Smackdown. For those who are living beneath a rock, WWE is wrestling. And yes, it is fake.
- For sure, we're running up the utility bill by running four laptops and playing with one ipod.
- I baked some peanut butter cookies again tonight. They turned out much better than last week's attempt.

And while I've been typing this, the older boys have return to their bedrooms for hibernation, Kim has retreated to the bedroom for her Friday night Lifetime Movie Network entertainment, and Tate just crawled up on the sofa beside me and said, "I just feel like snuggling with somebody... and that's you."

I'll have to finish blogging another time. Surely you understand my decision. Have a happy weekend!

Thanksgiving Holiday

2010-11-26T21:35:00.002-05:00

Let's be honest. We all know the right thing to do all year long is to be thankful... to live a life of continual thanksgiving. I hope to do a better job at that in the days ahead. This week was a very enjoyable week for our family. We were fortunate to attend the ALJC national youth convention at the Gaylord Palms hotel in Orlando. While the boys were able to make many new friendships, we all were encouraged by the worship and Word provided by the conference musicians and speakers. Colton and I were fortunate to play in the worship band all week long. It's pretty amazing that a 47 and 17 year old can jam it out together. Those are some pretty special memories being made...

I am especially thankful for friends. Many of the friends at the conference this week, I don't get to see very often. Sometimes once a year, or once every few years. In either case, we just pick up where we left off before. Some I've known all of my life, while others I've only met the past two or three years. Besides all the great fellowship, food, and fun we share with friends during times like these; it seems the most precious thing I am giving my family is the opportunity to connect with some of the finest people on earth. People of character and integrity, who even though we may not always agree on everything; we can agree to disagree and continue walking in love and peace.

I wonder what my boys will remember thirty years from now about this past week. I hope I'm around to hear it firsthand. Take time this week to give thanks for the little things in life. Life is so much more enjoyable when we live in gratitude and thankfulness.

I am thankful for all of my friends! I wish we could spend more time together. You are all in my prayers daily...

Be Thankful

2010-11-22T10:33:00.004-05:00

Thanksgiving week has finally arrived! Even though I'm thankful throughout the year, it seems appropriate to pause and begin to count my blessings. So here goes...

I'm thankful for healthy relationships. First, with Jesus Christ who makes Himself more real to me with each passing day. His love is pure, and His patience is never ending. Secondly, I'm thankful for my wife and family. God has blessed us so much the past few years. Kim is a rock in my life. The boys inspire me daily. I am very proud of them all, and love them dearly. Truly, I am a blessed man. Thirdly, I am grateful for friends who are honest, genuine, and loving. It's been a slow process, but I'm finally eliminating all the fake people from my life. Next, I'm appreciative of the music ministry that God has given me. Blue Oceans is making a difference in the lives of so many people. We've relocated to the Mt. Dora area and I'm excited about all that the future holds. Finally, I am very thankful for the opportunity to serve LIFE Church. The entire process of watching God place people together, merging lives, making advancements for the Kingdom, etc., is nothing short of thrilling! I can't wait to see everything that God has in store for us.

Push The Rewind Button

2010-11-19T08:37:00.005-05:00

While I try not to look at the past too much, sometimes it is good to take a look back and see where it is you've been. Since my last blog was in March, I'll pick things up there. The boys all played spring baseball... Colton on the Apopka high school team, Spencer had a great Jr's All-Star run (13-14 yr olds), and Tate's little league Mets team in coach pitch was a blast to watch!

But in mid-season, Kim was involved in an auto accident that nearly took her left arm, and very well could have taken her life. We are so blessed to still have Kim in our lives. While heading to work on a typical Monday morning, she flipped her truck and broke her left arm. To make a long story short, after a couple of surgeries, she is alive and doing well. God has kept her through everything, and the entire ordeal reminds us to trust in the Lord with all thine heart... and lean not to thine own understanding.

Here it is already November 2010, and our family is experiencing most exciting times of our lives! We've spent the last couple of years attending church in Oviedo, FL at Christian Life Center. During this time of transition, I've been able to build a model of evangelism through Blue Oceans Music by offering music education and watching it become a tool of outreach for the local community. It has been a very rewarding time for our family. God has moved in our lives and spoken to our hearts concerning His future intentions for us. After a long period of soul searching and seeking His perfect will, we have relocated Blue Oceans Music to Mt. Dora and also launched a new church plant there as well. LIFE Church is the result of God's perfect timing, His perfect plan unfolding, and Him being in control of our lives. He has surrounded us with a wonderful ministry team of friends who share the same vision and desire to reach out to others, while making a difference in people's lives. Already in six short weeks, we've seen numerous families come into the LIFE Church family... seeking more of Him. It seems that people have grown weary of religion. They are tired of seeing fake. We're just trying to keep it simple and keep it real. It seems the best is yet to come!

I'm Back!

2010-11-17T17:46:00.003-05:00

I'm baaaaccckkkkk!~ I can't believe I haven't blogged since earlier in the year. But I have a very good reason. Things have been changing for the better in our lives... and blogging simply wasn't very high on the priority list. But now that things seem to smoothing out a bit, my intentions are to do more blogging and enjoy life to the fullest.

Family. Friends. Faith.

2010-03-22T12:54:00.003-04:00

Time just keeps on ticking. Life just keeps on passing. The boys just keep on growing. Kim and I are thrilled to watch our boys grow physically, emotionally, and spiritually. After fall football season ended, the driveway basketball league started. After Christmas provided a new goal, the driveway once again became the neighborhood hangout. Spencer became so into it all, he joined the local Jr. Magic league at RDV sportplex and did very well in his first season. Tate has already said he wants to play next season. And now that the basketball season has concluded, all three boys are back into baseball. Colton is playing for the high school team, Spencer in the Jr. division at Little League, and Tate is dominating at the coach pitch level. Kim and I are working on our suntans each Saturday at the games.

Most importantly, the boys are really developing in their music skills. All of them play the drums and guitar. Spencer is dividing time between guitar, keyboard and drums. Colton is playing all of those plus the bass guitar. It's great to watch them lead in worship services as well. Their singing is really coming around. I'm very proud of them wanting to use their God-given talents for the Lord.

Our trip to Jimenez, Mexico for a holiday convention was life-changing. Our ministry team offered musical and spiritual instruction to almost 100 people who had traveled for many hours to be at the conference. We raised money and purchased guitars and spanish teach materials for the campers. One girl walked nearly five miles each day to be in attendance. Some of the campers came from a remote mountain village and had never seen indoor plumbing and other things we seem to take for granted. Many of them slept on the floors each night just to be at the conference. Several times when we dismissed a class for lunch or dinner that was being provided, they chose to stay in the room and continue playing their guitars. We taught them to play church songs and have recently received word how they are all leading their congregations into meaningful worship through our labors of love. They had no idea we were going to give the guitars to them at the end of the week long conference. I've learned never to doubt God and limit Him. All that we do for Him makes a difference in the lives of others.

Another trip has been planned for Port-au-Prince, Haiti May 7-10. We plan on pre-delivering food and supplies so we can feed the people of this earthquake stricken country and minister to them in a weekend evangelistic crusade. We live in exciting times! I'm glad to be a small part in making a difference in the lives of others.

The Blue Oceans vision is constantly being tweaked into what God has planned it to become all along. We are to the place where we desperately want to be used of Him, any way He chooses, and anywhere He places us. Life is good...

Summer & Fall Fun!

2009-10-10T17:54:00.004-04:00

Wow! The summer has flown by and now fall has arrived! Unless of course you are in Florida, it feels like summer most of the year. Not really, we live for about 8 weeks of wonderful winter weather. Enough about the weather.

The boys all played baseball in the spring, which seems to carry on through half of the summer months with all-star tournaments. Even thought I haven't coached baseball in a couple of years, I was able to manage Colton's Big League team (ages 16-18). We played respectable even though our team had a lot of younger players. It was a great experience overall! With only a two week break, football season began with daily practices. Spencer and Tate are both playing football now while Colton is back into fall ball baseball with the high school team. Watching Tate in full pads out on the football field is something to see. Fittingly, his team is in the Tiny Mite division.

This summer was very different from last year. We stayed home this year and worked at the school with some summer camps and such. Things have picked up at the school and we are enjoying a very productive fall semester. The boys have all increased their musicianship by learning to play additional instruments. All three boys are killing the drums! Colton has played a lot of bass guitar the past year, and also picked up the guitar and keyboards. Spencer is learning the keyboards and continues to play acoustic guitar as well. Tate has realized he needs to place his fingers on the fretboard of the guitar instead of playing air guitar for the rest of his life.

The highlight of my week is to watch the entire family playing and ministering together on the same platform. Kim sings on the worship team, while the boys all participate on their respective instruments. It seems as though last summer's experience of traveling country playing and playing with the boys has paid off. We are a blessed family.

Doors have opened up for me to take a music and ministry team to Mexico over the upcoming holidays. We will be teaching a conference December 27th-January 3rd. I am hoping to raise funds and purchase the sweet children and teenagers in Mexico a guitar for Christmas. Equipping and empowering them to become productive in the kingdom of God is a wonderful opportunity. For more information, you can visit www.blueoceansmusic.com and find additional ways to support the vision.

As you can see, we are enjoying the journey...

The Month of May

2009-05-05T13:32:00.002-04:00

Spring has come and gone. It has been a wonderful time for our family. We've adjusted to some changes in our lives and making the transition an enjoyable experience. We have kept busy and enjoyed all the excitement that life brings. Colton had a great baseball season on the JV team before being called up to the varsity and starting several games all the way through the district tournament. Spencer is still doing well on his Little League team by pitching and catching. His first homerun was a grand slam and I was lucky enough to catch it with my video phone. Tate's tee-ball games are so much fun. He is adorable. He wakes up early on Saturday morning, gets into his uniform and waits all day until his game begins. It must be nice being a child again.

Now as spring comes to an end and summer approaches, I always look forward to the month of May. School is winding down, along with the baseball regular season. The summer months mean trips to the beach, baseball tournaments, the boys being out of school, and just having some great family time. May is a time of anticipation and expectancy in our family.

May also brought us the swine flu epidemic which has kept Kim extremely busy at work. Not only does she take good care of us at home, she also takes care of all of Orlando and central Florida by being on the nightly news during the flu frenzy. She is nurse of the year!

I am keeping busy with the new school of music. Last month at a community event, I offered free guitar classes for all ages and word is spreading and things are catching on in east Orlando. We are gearing up for summer day camps offering music, dance, art, theatre, worship studies, etc. At the moment, we have about 35 families coming through our doors each week to study music. It's wonderful to see the wheels in motion as we begin to reach out to people and touch their lives. Check the school out at www.blueoceansmusic.com and help spread the word.

Life is good.

Spring Time!

2009-04-24T11:03:00.003-04:00

Spring time in our family usually means one thing. Baseball. It's been a wonderful time for us this year. Colton is playing on the high school team now, while Spencer and Tate are both playing in Little League this season. I must say, tee-ball is so much fun to watch! I had forgotten just how much fun it can be to see the little tots out there on the field. Between all of the practices and games, their schedules keep Kim and I pretty busy.

In addition to the world of baseball, our new venture has finally begun to take shape. For the past year or so, I've had a vision to launch a school of music, fine arts, and worship studies. We are so blessed to have that opportunity right here in Oviedo (east Orlando) and as a bonus our family was able to find a new place of worship and participation. Christian Life Center of Orlando is now our new church home, and it is wonderful to see Kim and the boys minister together each Sunday in leading worship. The congregation is growing and things are falling into place. We are blessed. It is a nice feeling to see so many families coming through the door to study music and all the arts. We are offering free classes and opportunities as a way to reach new people and be a blessing to as many families as possible. The gifts we use may be music, but the mission has always been, and will remain to be people. To see so many people come through our doors is encouraging and serves as a reminder that we are on the right track. The vision is alive and well.

I will try to start blogging more on a regular basis. Meanwhile, you can follow things at blueoceansmusic.com and see what we're all up to. I hope you all have a blessed weekend. Be blessed!

Happy New Year!

2009-01-16T21:29:00.005-05:00

I know it has been two and a half months since I've blogged, but things have been extremely busy, plus I've enjoyed being back home in Florida so much... that taking the time to blog hasn't been on the top of my to-do list.

Touring four months straight has a way of taking a toll on things. I'm thankful for good health and looking back at it now, I really felt great physically most of the time while out on the road and never really was sick at all. The boys sneezed whenever we were with people who owned cats or dogs, but other than that, we survived the challenges of being away from home and out of our normal routine. I must add that doing the tour was one of the best things we've ever done as a family. It helped us re-group emotionally, and allow God to prepare some changes in our lives. In addition to meeting many new people we've never met before, we saw a lot of familiar faces from the past. And along the way God helped establish a ministry within our family, which had been spoken to us in faith by many ministers, most of whom we had never met in person. It has been a special experience to watch our boys grow up and find themselves in the middle of ministry and the things of the Lord. I anticipate many great things from them in the future. They are excited about all that the future holds for our family.

I had flown Colton up to Greensboro, NC to spend a few days with me at a conference. I was so excited about getting back home earlier than expected, I asked him to ride with me and keep me awake while I drove all night long back to Orlando. Colton assured me that he would stay up and ride shotgun for me. After pondering my options, and being reluctant to cancel some things in Georgia; I knew it was time for me to get home and be with my family. Wouldn't you know he fell asleep after about two hours on the road, and I ended up pulling over at two different truck stops to rest about an hour each time. We made it back home about mid-morning and other than pulling an all-nighter... it felt oh so good to finally be home!

After taking it easy for a couple of weeks, I made a few quick trips out of town, but not to the point where it was disrupting my schedule at home. I was able to check out a few of Colton's baseball games, and even allowed Tate to play hooky from school a day or two over the next few weeks. I took the family to New Mexico for the holidays and we had a blast! It was one of the nicest vacations we've ever had. Spending two weeks relaxing in the southeastern New Mexico desert, skiing the snow covered mountains of Santa Fe, and exploring some scary terrain on four-wheelers helped us ring in the new year!

We flew into Orlando around midnight on New Years Eve...what a way to celebrate right? Then again, as long as we landed safely, we should consider ourselves blessed. The next day (January 1st) I picked my stepdad up from the airport and he spent two weeks with us. We had a wonderful time with him visiting and it was good to just relax and kick around with him. It has been a tough year on our family after losing my mom in April. We are glad to see 2009 get here, and look forward to all that God has in store for our family.

I trust everyone has a wonderful weekend and may your favorite NFL team be victorious on Sunday. I might add, it has been so good getting to watch more college and NFL action this fall than I had in previous years. Feel free to invite me over for the Super Bowl. I'll being the chicken wings and pickle burgers.

Florida!

2008-11-13T16:26:00.003-05:00

When I say Florida, I don't mean the University of Florida Gators. Even though they are doing well right now, I mean Florida is home, and Florida is where I've been for about three weeks. It has been nice being back home and getting back into the swing of things. Along with ministry opportunities and playing out some, I've been able to catch up on some football and baseball games, fine tune my Bobby Flay cooking techniques in the kitchen, and re-establish my taxi-cab service for the boys.

Tate is doing much better in school with his behavior and his grades have been great all year long. Spencer is learning the french horn in middle school band, singing in the all-county chorus, and getting ready to try out for the middle school basketball team. Colton is having a good year playing baseball (pitching and catching mostly), and hitting the ball good. His drumming and other musical skills are coming along quickly! Now we just need to work on his math class.

Kim is keeping this fall with her flu shot campaigns, keeping all of us in line at home, and getting ready for the holidays. All in all, it feels great to finally be back home. Even while touring I've been working on some things since last spring and looking forward to seeing those dreams come to pass. God has been good to my family. I'm thankful for His faithfulness and blessings in our lives.

I probably won't blog as much in the upcoming weeks, but I'm working on an additional website and some new musical opportunities. Keep us in your prayers.

Tennessee!

2008-10-14T11:43:00.003-04:00

I left Knoxville early Friday morning and drove to Nashville to pick Kim up at the airport. Her flight arrived mid-morning and she walked outside just as I drove up to the sidewalk. Perfect timing! I think buying the new Ricky Skaggs cd at Cracker Barrel helped keep me on time. (It also helped get me another speeding ticket.) We drove to the hotel over near the Opryland area and checked in early. We rested the afternoon and then headed to a wedding I was singing and playing at over in west Nashville. It was a beautiful wedding with 19 bridesmaids. It was maybe the largest wedding I've ever been to, and it was a wonderful evening. We were able to see many friends from the past and enjoyed catching up with them and the latest changes in their lives. Saturday we enjoyed the Opry Mills outlet mall and went downtown Nashville for dinner and some music. Sunday I played over in Dickson, TN (west of Nashville) and we had a wonderful time. Again, there was no agenda really, just a desire to find where it was God wanted us to be, and to help lead His children closer to His presence. It is just that simple. Freedom is a wonderful thing. To be free in a service and take your time in ministry is a real blessing. God did some great things in the service and we had a wonderful day. Kim and I enjoyed the weekend and are counting the days until I get back home to Florida. I took her to the airport yesterday afternoon, and then drove back to Knoxville to return my rental car. (I can honestly say a PT Cruiser isn't in my top ten list of favorite vehicles to be in.) I made it back to my friends house and am enjoying just being in the smokie mountains for a couple of days before heading to Greensboro, NC for a conference. I plan on being back in Florida sometime later next week. It will be nice to be off the road and finally back home.

Light at the end of the tunnel...

2008-10-09T01:47:00.007-04:00

So much has happened since my last blog. The end of the tour is in sight, so I'll attempt to bring you up to date with things. As difficult as it was to leave Apopka and fly back to Memphis, it was a bit easier knowing that I would be on my last leg of the summer/fall tour. A week ago Monday, I flew back to Memphis and spent some quality time with family, my siblings and stepdad, and friends. It is always good to "go back home" and re-live some childhood memories.

After resting up a day, I was in service at my home church and thoroughly enjoyed the pastor's message. After service we went to a local hamburger joint and endulged ourselves. (At least I did.) The next day I visited the college campus where Kim and I met nearly 25 years ago! I walked around the campus, viewed some yearbooks in the library, took plenty of pictures, etc. I was fortunate enough to sit in on a rehearsal of one of the bands that I played in back in 1983. Wow! Then the dean of music and I discussed life and music in his office for about an hour. What a delightful day it was! I was missing Kim pretty badly by this time. Later in the afternoon I drove to visit a friend who owns a recording studio and was able to see his new studio (in the process of being built), and enjoyed talking old times and friends. I rushed back to my hometown to watch the vice-presidential debate with my stepdad and wasn't disappointed with Sarah Palin's performance. On Friday night, my siblings, nephews and their families met for dinner at Cravin' Catfish. Catfish is one of my main weaknesses, although I suppose it could be worse, right? Saturday morning I drove my stepdad down to visit my Uncle Fred and Aunt Linda. Uncle Fred is my mom's only surviving sibling. Aunt Linda walked me down to their catfish pond and she fed the fish a plate filled with homemade biscuits. I immediately asked if I could "borrow" a rod and reel, and quickly caught about a 5 pounder. I set the hook in his mouth so hard, I had to call for Uncle Fred to help me with a pair of pliers. (I know how to get a hook from the mouth of a fish.) Uncle Fred cleaned the fish, as Aunt Linda made lunch. There must have been a dozen vegetable selections on their table. It was veggie heaven! After lunch we drove to a motorcycle shop to see a bike that my cousin is trying to sell. I have no idea why I went there, except maybe hoping for a miracle that somehow, this time, I would make a purchase. No such luck. Later that night I left for Florence, AL so I'd be there for service the next morning. On the way, I stopped at Catfish Country in Booneville, MS for one last taste of Mississippi catfish before I head home...

Sunday services in Florence were fantastic! The music, worship, and the Word was just what I needed. I always have a wonderful time with friends in Florence. Monday morning, I stopped by the mall for a few new shirts, a haircut, and lunch, before heading to Athens, AL to see more friends on my way to Knoxville. I met a friend at Starbucks for coffee (which doesn't sound like me at all), and enjoyed our discussion on the changing times of music and ministry. He is younger than I am, and that always seems to bring a proper balance into the discussion. Then I went over to visit some friends who I hadn't seen in a long time. We talked politics, the upcoming presidential election, kids, food, life's necessary changes, etc.

I left for Knoxville, TN on Wednesday morning and drove all the way in a rainstorm. I finally arrived at my friends' house, just in time for visit a while and drive over to a music conference I was attending in Maryville, TN. Again, the music, worship, and Word was awesome and just what I needed! There is no substitute for God and His anointing in our music. Many times we don't see anointing in our music is because there is too much of "us" present, and we leave very little room for God. We try to make things happen on our own, and what eventually begins to happen is we find ourselves in a rut... of going through the motions and relying on our human abilities instead of God's anointing. Going through the motions is no way to live life.

Thursday night I was in service in east Knoxville and had an incredible time there! Little did I know the church had just completed a ten day fast and there was a wonderful presence of God in the place. It made ministering in song so much easier. There was no set list or long outline. There was no agenda. There was no pre-concieved idea of what was supposed to take place. The only thing that we wanted was a powerful display of God's presence. Wow! It is amazing at the differences in flowing in the spirit and following a song or service outline. It's like eating a cheap hotdog or a filet mignon. I love it whenever God's presence is so strong it seems the only thing to do is simply stand still and be reverent and quiet. To be in awe of his greatness. In awe of His might. Less of me, more of Him. I am so undeserving. None of us deserve His blessings.

Just a few more days and I'll be heading back home to Florida! I can the end now... and really, it is only the beginning.

Pride, Joy, and Treasure

2008-09-25T13:29:00.004-04:00

A few times this summer while the boys and I were on tour, the question arose that of my three sons, which one did I love the most? Actually, it wasn't a question as much as it was an accusation that I must love one more than the others. How absurd is that? I hadn't heard that "question" since I asked (screamed) it out myself as a young child. This topic usually came up when one of the boys didn't get their way about something, or they didn't get what they asked for in the mall, etc. I usually explained to them all how I loved them equally, and how parents don't love one child more than another. Somehow, this answer never satisfies them, especially the younger two boys. Even though they are all three different in personalities and dispositions, naturally they all mean the world to Kim and I.

For example, Colton being the oldest child is pretty independent and head strong. He has his own idea about things (most everything), and sometimes needs extra time with dad or mom to come around to our way of thinking. But when I see where his interests are, I can't help but feel good. He plays high school baseball, yet most of his friends, at least the ones he wants to hang out with, are from church. If given the choice between playing a baseball game and rehearsing with a worship band, he would choose the band most of the time. Colton's main instrument is drums, but he learned to play the bass and acoustic guitar this past summer. (One night he even found a microphone that was louder than mine, and started singing in it.) We can't have that now can we? Haha His grades are good for the most part, and he is very sociable with others. He loves the things of God and is always willing to do whatever is asked of him when it comes to giving himself to the kingdom. I am very proud of Colton and all that he has accomplished so far in his life.

My middle son Spencer, is sometimes called "Little Deano". People have a big laugh whenever I let him put on my glasses for a moment. We've never had any problem out of Spencer. He too loves playing baseball and football and does a great job at both. He has played on some teams that went to state tournaments and has achieved quite a lot in the sportsworld. But when it comes to sports or church or music, Spencer jumps at the opportunities for music and church. He is very talented and has become a good singer. Along with playing the guitar, he is picking up some things on the piano as well. Spencer is tenderhearted and has a soft and sweet spirit. Everywhere we went this past summer, people often commented on how they enjoyed being with Spencer. It is a joy to watch Spencer grow up in the ways of the Lord, and I am excited to see what all God has in store for his life.

Tate. There are times I wonder what was I thinking... at age 39, when we were sure we'd have a little girl, if only we tried one more time. I just have to thank God that Tate is our last child. Tate is quite a little ham. He loves to entertain others, and is the owner of a huge imagination. Tate immediately wins people over. On the summer tour, it was Tate that people always wanted to see play the drums. I could be singing, but all eyes were on Tate. He just turned six years old a week ago, and has girlfriends strung out all across the country. Tate doesn't hide the fact that he is a player when it comes to girls. (We really should be worried.) Most, if not all of his girlfriends are at least high school age, usually college. I reminded him this summer that when I was 5 years old, I did nothing exciting. I never went on trips, never crossed the state line, never saw all the things he'd seen, etc. Knowing that Tate is our last child, our baby, makes every moment a little extra special. I treasure each day spent with Him. He is a real treasure in our lives.

My pride, my joy, and my treasure. Kim and I are very blessed to have Colton, Spencer, and Tate in our lives.

Home Is Where The Heart Is

2008-09-23T08:35:00.003-04:00

The flight to Orlando yesterday was worth every penny I paid for it! It feels good to be back home for a few days. Kim picked me up at the airport and gave me a big hug and kisses! I miss her so much whenever I'm on the road, and I appreciate her being so understanding with the call of God I have on my life. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful wife, and the boys are fortunate to have a mom who takes care of all their needs.

This morning I am sitting in my brand new recliner and enjoying the quietness of my house. After waking up very early (again) and seeing Spencer off to school, I spent some time with Tate before letting him ride his brand new bicycle down to the bus stop. Kim left for work shortly afterward and I'm waiting to take Colton to his orthodontist appointment. Just call me Mr. Mom. I have a lunch appointment with a super musician Corey Powell who heads up one of the finest horn sections in the country. He plays with many top artists, and I get to buy him lunch today. Colton has a baseball game today and tells me he is scheduled to start the game pitching. Spencer has a football game on Saturday and I'm excited about seeing him dish out some pain to the other team. (Listen to me! I've turned into a dad with anger management issues.) I'd better charge up the camera now.

Yesterday was Tate's 6th birthday and he was pumped up for it too! As soon as he walked through the doorway from school he wanted to go to town and get his bicycle that we had promised him. I'm surprised he didn't run someone over in the store while he was trying it out for size. We had dinner at Sonny's BBQ and he thought he was big stuff since he ate ribs and cleaned the bone like an expert. (I wonder where he got that talent from?) Then we had some birthday cake while the waitresses sang "Happy Birthday" to Tate. Last night Colton had band practice, Spencer had football practice, and I practiced laying my head on the pillow around 9:00.

It will be great being at home for a week. I have several meetings planned regarding some exciting things coming up later in the fall, along with playing out a couple of times as well. Then it's back on the road again (in the words of Willie Nelson) as I fly back to Memphis next Monday and pick up where I left off. After making it to the Ole Miss homecoming next Saturday, I'll begin to make my way through MS, AL, TN, NC, and GA before heading home for good around the end of October. The good news is Kim will meet me in Nashville for a weekend and Colton will do the same in Greensboro, NC.

If anyone can hook me up, I am looking for the following football tickets: Ole Miss, Vanderbilt, Tennessee, and Georgia. (I'm not sure if they still play football in North Carolina.) Just kidding!

Heading Home

2008-09-21T18:21:00.002-04:00

It felt so good last week crossing the state line from Indiana into Kentucky. Then the trip down to Nashville was even better. But neither compared to driving into Mississippi. Wednesday afternoon I stopped at ASCAP and took care of some business, then I had lunch with a friend in outside of Nashville. We shared our visions for ministry, and our dreams for life. He is getting married in a couple of weeks and that reminded me of so many dreams I had at that age. Many years later, I am happy to report that I feel my best years are ahead! After a great lunch (more like dinner), I drove I-40 west and played at a church in Dickson, TN. I spent the night and got an early start for Mississippi on Thursday. For some reason on travel days, I usually can't sleep in. Thursday was no exception. I stayed awake trying to get my phone to work between Jackson, TN and Holly Springs, MS where I had planned on having lunch with a pastor friend of mine from way back. I hadn't seen him in several years and it seemed as if we met for lunch everyday. I am amazed how God controls our lives and blesses our families when we remain faithful to His calling. I am so happy for everyone in my life who has dreamed dreams in life, had visions for their ministry, and found where they are supposed to be in both. Thursday night I met my sister, my brother and sister-in-law, and my stepdad for dinner. We stayed so long talking... it seemed we shut the place down.

Friday, I drove over to Batesville, MS to visit a long-time friend from college. He has been involved in music ministry for ever it seems, and I thoroughly enjoyed being with his wonderful family. As a bonus, our football team from Apopka had made the trip up to Mississippi to play his high school team. It was a battle to the end, as Apopka fell short. Saturday morning I was able to sleep in until 10:00 AM. That was the first time in about ten days I hadn't awakened early. Playing one-nighters can begin to take a toll on the body (and voice). The drive over to Oxford was only 30 minutes and I set up camp to tailgate on the Ole Miss campus. The game against Vanderbilt started at 6:00 PM and was a great game even though Ole Miss fell short on the scoreboard. The entire weekend brought back some wonderful memories of my time spent at Ole Miss and the Mississippi delta.

This morning I woke up very early and drove about two hours to Corinth, MS and played at a 10:30 service. I always enjoy playing in Corinth. That town also brings back memories of when I was at Northeast and met Kim. On my way out of town I stopped in Booneville and drove around the campus. It has changed some with a few new or remodeled buildings, but overall, it has the same look and feel as it did back in 1981. (Tuition for an 18-hour semester was $220 back then.) I suddenly feel very old! I drove around the campus and saw all the hangout spots where Kim and I spent a lot of time... and I thanked God for keeping his hand of blessing on our lives and blessing us with a wonderful family. None of our friends would have ever thought we could have made it together and lasted this long. Those were the days... It is a good thing to look back every once in a while... just to see how far God has brought us. I really couldn't have made it without Him on my side. Today I remembered the times He spared my life and gave me another chance to do what was right and serve Him. Some of my friends weren't so lucky. Automobile accidents, tragic circumstances, etc. have claimed the lives of many of my friends. Tonight, I am the luckiest man alive. And tomorrow is Tate's 6th birthday, and I'm flying home to Orlando for a week! Even though I'll be working it will be great to spend some time at home with the family. This tour will end around the third weekend of October. Keep me in your prayers.

The South

2008-09-16T08:52:00.002-04:00

I had such a wonderful time in Indiana working with all the great people and churches. I left Lafayette on the 12th and drove down to Bedford, IN for the weekend and had a fantastic time! The young people there are terrific and it was a pleasure working with them. Who says a 45-year old can't relate to youth? They are already scheduling a couple of trips later next year to work on some their musical skills. And the church in Bedford has some wonderful "senior saints". We did everything from "All In Him" to "Take It All", from G.T. Haywood to Hillsongs. And everyone enjoyed it in the process. Just imagine. Seriously, it was a wonderful weekend with friends and people who simply love Jesus. I love including everyone in the worship experience too. It is nice whenever people of all ages come to the CD table and say how they were blessed through the music and worship. I would hate to know that someone felt excluded from God's presence just because I was one-dimensional in my worship leading, or lacked the talent to present a well-rounded worship hour. From the pastors and saints I speak with, they value the concept of a blended worship experience, and feel this is a huge struggle in many churches. Maybe it is something that should be taught to churches everywhere? Anyway, I can't wait to go back next year! Go Hoosiers!

I must admit though, it felt oh so good to get back to Nashville! (I am three states closer to home!) When I think of how I could be stuck in Kentucky right now without any gasoline in my tank. I drove the back way to I-65 and saw where gas prices were at $4.15 or more, so thought I'd wait and get gas in New Albany, IN which is across the river from Louisville, KY. No can do. The stations were out and people were driving across the river into Louisville which was also a mess since many stations were out. I was pretty much between 1/16th of a tank and empty. Yes, I am a man of great faith. Or is it simply dangerous living? I drove south of Lousiville about 8 miles and found a Pilot station with gas for $3.99. I pull in, go in and give the lady $220 which I already know from a previous fill-up this summer will at least put 52 gallons into the R.V. But when I walk outside the guy is changing the price on the sign to $4.08 per gallon! $208 later, I headed toward Nashville.

When I got to the Ft. Knox exit I decided not to take it, and continued on without adding to an already exhausting mid-life crisis. (See earlier blogs) I am disappointed they haven't yet added my name to the "Birthplace of Abraham Lincoln" sign at the highway 31 exit to Radcliff. Someone needs to let the KY Dept. of Highway know I was born in Ft. Knox, Kentucky. Friends had already told me gasoline in Nashville was sky high and some stations were completely out. So I stopped in Bowling Green, KY and filled up with another $43 worth. After White Castle defeated Cracker Barrel in my decision making process, I crossed the KY/TN state line and began to sing "wish that I was on 'ole Rocky Top... down in the Tennessee hills". I know once I get south of Nashville (maybe Chattanooga), there will be no more White Castle hamburgers to enjoy. (Except the dozen of frozen ones I bought in Wal-Mart that are still in the RV freezer.) I'm going mandolin shopping today with some friends and hooking up with Michael English tonight at TBN in Nashville. More later...

Back On Track

2008-09-11T09:52:00.003-04:00

After taking yesterday to get some clothes washed, pick up some others at the cleaners, and run a few errands, I drove over to Anderson, IN for service last night. It was great seeing old friends and spending some time together at dinner. I had taken back roads on the way over to Anderson and ended up going through Alexandria, IN. It had been many years since I've been in Alexandria but was excited to stop by Bill Gaither's studios and music complex. Even if his music isn't your favorite style, one must admit that he has done so much for gospel music through the years. It was funny to see the welcome sign into Alexandria. It said Alexandria was home to someone I had never heard of! There was no mention of Bill Gaither at all! I guess if he was a former NFL star who played 3 or 4 years before going to prison for doing something stupid, his name would be on the welcome sign. Either way, Alexandria is the loser for not recognizing one of gospel music's greatest treasures.

The message at service was entitled "A House Of Prayer" and reminded me of the true focus of what we call "church" and "having church". Over time we've somehow turned "church" into some type of a show, which is usually a feeble attempt of entertainment, especially when you compare it to what we would consider "worldly events" such as concerts, shows, productions, etc. People don't need another "show" when they come to our churches. They need to witness a life-changing manifestation of power that they've never seen or felt before. And yet, so many times we choose to just go through the motions with our little song list, and our ideas that we compiled during our creative worship meetings with the planning team. Who among us would admit to wanting to play God, in planning out every service in detail? If that is what we're going to do, then we had better have a batting average of 1,000. I don't want a person's blood on my hands just because they came to church needing a touch of God in their lives and all I had to give them was a typed up song list that did nothing but meet my little monthly quota of new songs, and making sure that everyone in the "in crowd" was allowed to sing out front and shine brightly. The sad part is that we shine brighter more often than God does. Who are we kidding? As a worship leader I know the importance of proper advance planning. I also feel that Levitical skill should also play a part in our worship leading. When we follow after Christ each moment of the day, it won't be difficult to come into His house (a house of prayer) and be sensitive to what needs to take place in that service. It isn't about me and what I want to do. It is about Him, and all that He wants to accomplish in the lives of His people.

Okay, can you tell that has been on my mind for quite a while? In fact, it has been burning in my heart for several years now. It is only in recent months however, that I've been able to launch out in complete freedom of worship (and leading), without worrying about a program or a schedule. Clearly, the message and fellowship last night was what I needed to help me continue in the vision that God has given me. It was confirmation of the burden I have in my heart for the kingdom. I'll share more about this later in the tour.

After dinner, I didn't feel like driving slowly through the Indiana cornfields, so I took the interstate back to Lafayette. I returned a call to Colton and somehow the energy of our conversation had me going 83 mph in a 70 mph zone. There was no talking myself out of this situation... especially when my radar detector was still buzzing and going off loudly as the officer asked for my license. The good news is he gave me about 7 weeks to pay the ticket. I wonder if I should ask Colton to pay part of it?

I need to run the R.V. over for an oil change, take care of a couple more errands, and meet pastor and his wife for lunch. Tomorrow I leave for southern Indiana and hope to spend some time with Larry Bird and his family. Ha!

Boring

2008-09-09T23:40:00.002-04:00

Today was unique. I woke up around 8:00, ate my typical breakfast of frosted flakes and a pop tart. Computer work kept me occupied until mid-afternoon when I finally made it to the post office and shipped Kim's new handbag and Spencer's Purdue bandana, eye-black, and a football poster. A quick run over to the Purdue campus brought me to Captain Gyros, and let me say that he really is the captain! Man-oh-man! Talk about a lot of good food! Then I went over to take some pictures of the Purdue baseball and football teams practicing. I wanted to send Spencer some pictures for good luck since he was playing a make-up football game tonight back in Florida. Stops at Barnes and Noble, Target, and Wal-Mart finally brought me back to the R.V. to put up the groceries. Then I went to Pizza King and picked up some food to take over to my friends' house for dinner. Does it get any better than bacon and onion? I say it probably does not. After watching a Bela Fleck concert, and Concert From New York (immediately after 9-11), I made it back to the R.V. so David Letterman can entertain me until I get sleepy. Boring day, right? Maybe tomorrow will bring more excitement...

The Big City

2008-09-09T08:57:00.004-04:00

I always love going to big cities and seeing all the sights! Yesterday I drove into Chicago for the day. The weather report the night before said rain would come, but only later in the night. It came about ten hours earlier! In the middle of the afternoon the rain came and it hit hard! All I wanted to do was shop Michigan Ave. and the downtown area. Was that asking too much? I think not. In spite of the rain, I found a wonderful Greek restaurant for a gyro platter. The food in Chicago is fabulous! I spent quite a while in the Apple (computers) store. You'd better watch your wallet in there though. Apple computers and accessories are not cheap at all. During one of the downpours I found myself in the Gucci store. I must admit, those aren't my kind of price tags, but that gives the sales team no reason to look at me like I'm Julia Roberts in the movie Pretty Woman. I felt so discriminated and violated! Was it the Nike shoes I bought at an outlet in Colorado for $25? Or could it have been the Levi blue jeans? Maybe it was the pullover I got from J.C. Penney's this summer during one of their big and tall sales. It was unfair the way they looked at me as if I was going to shoplift or open a can of beanie weenies over in the corner and eat my dinner while the rain poured outside. My credit card worked just fine earlier in the day at Wal-Greens when I needed an umbrella. (with a "Chicago" logo) Once it was obvious they didn't want me in there, I ended up touching every garment in the store that was on a hanger. Ha! And on my way out the door, I softly muttered, "well, at least I am heterosexual."

After a long day of shopping, and hopping cabs all over town to stay out of the rain, my friends Mike and Pam called to see where I was and offered to come by and pick me up for dinner. But before dinner, we sped off to Chinatown for some more bags, purses, shoes, umbrellas, wallets, watches, and whatever else they sell! Deals, deals, deals! But as it turned out, the best decision of the day was choosing Maggiano's for a most delightful Italian dinner. Maggiano's reminds me of Carmine's in New York City with their family style servings. Three of us walked in without any reservations and was directed to a wonderful table right by the front window where we could view the rain pouring down and the people walking down the sidewalks. I went to the restroom to wash my hands and told them to order for me. (I'm so easy to please when it comes to food.) The servers began to bring our food to the table and it seemed the selections would never stop. Stuffed mushrooms, spinach and artichoke dip, lasagne, tenderloin with mashed potatoes, linguinie, and baked chicken, followed by two different desserts which I won't attempt to remember their names. Good conversation also makes a meal even better and such was the case last night. The most crummy day (weather-wise) of the summer also provided the most enjoyable meal of the tour. The drive back to Indiana was long and sleepy. Had it not been for the sunroof being open and XM radio Fox News blasting, I couldn't have made it back! Needless to say, today I am going to rest up and do some computer work.

Hoosiers

2008-09-07T11:49:00.000-04:00

It has been a wonderful experience to spend some time this summer in Indiana. Lafayette is my favorite place to be up this way. It is centrally located in the state and has so much to offer since Purdue University is across the river in West Lafayette. The church here is awesome and I’ve been blessed to have made so many friends. They treat me so well here and I simply feel at home anytime I am here ministering. There is such a rich heritage here among the people, and especially in their music.
This morning before service, I was fortunate enough to have an impromptu jam session with the bishop of the church and some of the musicians. He was interested in my Washburn acoustic guitar (which always sounds so fine… ha), and I had him play it for me. There was a banjo sitting nearby in the case that I quickly picked up to tune and play along with him. We played several songs in about 20 minutes. It was so real. It was so simple. People who live what they sing are always more interesting than those who haven’t a clue as to what they are playing or singing. To think of the life this man has lived, the many years he has served the Lord with his talents and gifts, I stood in amazement. We did the older songs. I even sneaked in a quick version of “Rocky Top” and “Cripple Creek”. (It’s okay. Not all of the songs performed in today’s churches mention “Jesus”.) Sometimes in church services I have to really listen closely to even know if it is a religious song or just a secular jam. I might even put some ‘christian lyrics’ to the song “Rocky Top” like someone did to George Benson’s song “On Broadway”. So, yes, I had a lot of fun playing with the bishop before service. I’m going over to their house for lunch… and we might even practice this afternoon to do some pickin’ tonight. It’s nice being well-rounded and appealing to everyone in the congregation. I wonder where they teach that ability these days?

Tick Tock

2008-09-06T21:41:00.002-04:00

My time in Lafayette is almost over. Tomorrow is the last weekend of services I will be here. I've been able to establish a team of faithful members to more effectively and creatively plan their worship services. Worship is a journey. You simply don't arrive overnight. Tomorrow will be bitter sweet. I am anxious to be going back down south enroute to Florida. (Though I may go back to Chicago Monday.)

Today, I went to the Purdue football game with a friend. They slaughtered N. Colorado. No surprise there. I came back to the church and had a rehearsal with the quartet that will be singing tomorrow. Then I went to eat sushi for dinner. The weather was perfect today! I was busy sending pics to the family today and they sent me some pics from Spencer's football game. I'm so glad they won! I can't wait to get back home and see some of his games this season.

This week has been a bit slow for me but I've been able to wrap up a few loose ends on some upcoming events. It's always good to have people working along beside you who are detailed and able to help with the cause. There are so many little things that always need to be taken care of. I'm thankful I've surrounded myself with winners... people who see things through, and who see the big-picture in things. Those whose agenda is only to see what God wants to do in their lives and the lives of others. People working together. Trusting one another. God does an amazing job in reshaping our perspective on life. I can't wait to turn the page on another chapter of life. I'd better get some rest. Tomorrow will be a very long day.

Updated!

2008-09-03T11:34:00.002-04:00

You know its bad when your friends call to remind you to update your blog. And here I thought no one cared enough to read this anyway. So much has happened since I last blogged. Let me try to bring you up-to-date with things.

I made it safely back to Indiana, rushed from the airport, made it to rehearsal and had a great time! I always love being with God's people and working on music for Sunday. The weekend was nice and I spent some time visiting the local music store (again) and played several mandolins, banjos, and Martin acoustic guitars. I think they're on to me at the store, knowing I'm probably never going to actually purchase anything there.

The concert Sunday night was a 5th Sunday night singing the church has each quarter. I was the featured artist. (whatever that means) I didn't feel like doing the normal setlist of songs. Instead, I borrowed the pastor's mandolin and banjo for the afternoon. After doing a few of my regular tunes, I busted out the mandolin and played and unaccompanied version of "Oh How I Love Him". As the entire congregation joined in with their voices lifted high, I began to feel God's presence so strong. My playing wasn't "all that", but their singing made the difference. You can always tell when a congregation is musically well-rounded, balanced in repertoire, and has an appreciation of the past. I don't have time for shallow worship, nor shallow people. I long for deep, intense moments of fellowship with Him. It seems we are really missing the mark in today's churches by not offering musically, a taste of everything for everyone to enjoy. How arrogant and selfish of me to think that everyone likes the kind of music that I like. We are all a part of the body of Christ. We are all individual members with varying likes and dislikes.

Back to the program... I went into a mid-tempo version of "Unclouded Day" on the mandolin. I traded in my mandolin for the banjo and went into a long stretch of songs right out of the book... and we had a great little sing-a-long. I don't care who you are, but if you can't appreciate songs like "I Saw The Light", "He Set Me Free", "The Glory-land Way", "I'll Fly Away", "Victory In Jesus", and the other songs we sang, then you should have your head examined! All in all, my first public performance on the mandolin was a success. The banjo is another story, as I probably need to take it to the woodshed a few more times. I just covered up my banjo playing with good singing. (A trick that more artists should consider doing.) Ha

Monday was Labor Day and I have to say it was quite laborious driving into Chicago, parking in a Michigan Ave. garage, taking a cab to Chinatown to buy Kim some purses and Spencer some Air Jordan basketball shoes. The labor continued all the way back to Michigan Ave. and on to Wrigley Field for a battle between the Houston Astros and the Chicago Cubs. Wrigley Field is considered by many baseball experts to be baseball heaven. I tend to agree. A breezy, 72 degree, Chicago sunny and clear afternoon, while sitting in complete shade in section 25, row 5, seat 1... only 20 feet from the players dugout is nearly indescribable. Did I mention the cheeseburger, bratwurst, nachos and chees, peanuts, all accompanied by a large Diet Pepsi? I really didn't need to come back down to Michigan Ave for dinner, but if you are in Chicago, you might as well enjoy Chicago! Right? Even though the Cubbies aren't always a winner, CheeseCake Factory is!

Here is some free advice. If the toll road between Chicago and Gary, Indiana is closed or has too much traffic, stay on it anyway. If you must, drive through roadblocks, over other vehicles, to the bottom of Lake Michigan, whatever! Just don't exit and drive through Gary, IN thinking you are taking a shortcut that will be safe. Gary, Indiana is the very opposite of safe. It looks like a warzone without the tanks! The streets are abandoned. No businesses are open for business. The only business going down on those streets is selling crack and prostitution. I do believe it is where the idea of the popular Xbox game Grand Theft Auto came from. It is also the hometown of Michael Jackson (who just turned 50 years old last week). The judge should make him come back to Gary, IN and live. Make him pay to rebuild the city! No wonder he became the King of Pop music! A quick 5-minute drive through downtown Gary, IN (and I do mean QUICK), would be all the incentive and drive I would ever need to make something of myself! Get out of that place... whatever it takes!

Okay, enough about that stuff. I am back in Lafayette and in a busy week of meetings, rehearsals, services, and getting quite a lot of work done (minus the blogging), I feel safe here. I am going to miss the wonderful people here in Lafayette when I leave next Monday. I will then be on my way back down south... back home to Florida where I belong. I'm just not sure of the exact route I'll be taking. Stay tuned for more!

Airports

2008-08-28T07:53:00.004-04:00

The house is emptying out slowly but surely. First, Spencer woke up and we talked while he dressed for school and made it to the bus stop. Next, Tate came into the living room, ready for action, and determined to ride the bus to school today for the first time. (He rode the bus home yesterday for the first time.) Colton is still asleep and will wake up at the very last minute possible to make it in time for his bus stop. Teenagers! Then Kim will take me to the airport and I will get back into this only-for-a-season routine that I've developed over the summer. I can't wait to get back home for good. While, I've seen wonderful results from traveling this summer and experienced some great things, there is no place like home. I miss the family. Kim has done so well with things in my absence. She is the rock of our family. We had a wonderful dinner and enjoyed some family time together last night. She is taking the day off today and catching up on some things around the house.

I am flying American airlines today back to Indianapolis going through St. Louis, and should arrive at 3:15 in the afternoon. I hope I make it on time since I have a rehearsal tonight. I'd better get to moving...

I made it from the curbside to the gate in 7 minutes thanks to my Fly Clear card that gets me through security lines without having to wait. I made it to St. Louis and enjoyed lunch at Chili's before boarding a very small jet headed for Indianapolis. A ginger ale and a bag of peanuts later, we landed safely in Indianapolis, where the pastor and his grandson picked me up. We drove straight to Lafayette, and I sit here now watching the local news and typing the blog. Technology is awesome... when everything works right! I am rehearsing tonight with the praise and worship team, choir, and an all-male quartet. How many churches have a quartet that sings on a regular basis?

Undeserving

2008-08-26T16:24:00.002-04:00

Undeserving. That is what I am, when it comes to God's blessings in my life. It is an ongoing process, but I am learning that God honors faithfulness. He also greatly rewards those who are kingdom-minded and who see the big-picture. I try to do just that. I know God will bless me and my family for bringing honor and glory to Him.

I had several meetings yesterday and today that are helping define the future of my family. Looking back, I can hardly believe how God has been with us, remained our friend, and looked out for our well-being. He is so good to His children. Each of my meetings over the past two days have reminded me of just how blessed I am to have God leading my life. I've made mistakes. I've fallen short many times. I have disappointed many people, I am certain. I also know that God knows our hearts. He knows how we treat others. God knows our intentions, our insecurities, and our fears. He hears our prayes. He answers our call. God's masterplan for each of our lives has been in place for a very long time. Realizing that He knows the end from the beginning brings me a great amount of comfort. God is in control.

The most amazing thing happened to me at the doctor's office today. Since I was home, and in town for a couple of days, I thought it a good idea to visit my family physician. My bloodwork from yesterday morning came back and everything was perfect! Did you read what I just typed??? Perfect! Anyone who knows me, knows that I am not perfect by any means. But when it comes to my cholesterol, sugar, kidneys, and all the other 2,368 tests they run with bloodwork, I'd say that is good news. Such good news, that the doctor printed out the results and told me to go home and frame it to the wall! Could a positive outlook on life be connected to better health? Is happiness in life related to a healthier life? Living stress-free is the way to go. When I think of what used to weigh me down... what used to occupy my mind, and what used to challenge me at every opportunity... I just have to give God all the glory! No more shackles, no more chains... no more bondage, I am free! He is so amazing. I am still undeserving.

GPS

2008-08-26T16:00:00.005-04:00

This morning I took Tate to school and since he started classes while I was up north, he felt the need to give me turn-by-turn directions to his school. I was appreciative of his willingness to share, and even more impressed by his ability to remember all the turns to his new school. Even though I really knew where I was going, I found myself enjoying the ride so much that I began to slow down and cherish each moment we spent together. I absorbed every word he spoke, each facial expression, and thoroughly enjoyed holding hands while I drove. He is my baby. I love watching him grow. I love seeing him learn new things and overcome new challenges. I figured he would be scared to go to his new school. I somehow thought he might dread going to his new environment. Instead to my surprise, he welcomed the opportunity to attend a new school, make new friends, and take on new challenges. Maybe he knows that either Kim or myself will be there to pick him up afterward. Our children can teach us a lot if we will take the time to learn from them.

Today, I learned how important it is to have someone who gives us directions in our lives. Someone who has been down that particular road before. Someone who has traveled the same paths that we now find ourselves going down. Proper directions are important if you want to get where you need to go. Secondly, as we find ourselves going down new roads in life, we should remain confident that God will be with us all the way. And if by chance we begin to rely on our own abilities, eventually making a complete mess of things, that He is so kind and loving toward us, the He will help pick up the broken pieces of our lives and be waiting for us at the end. How wonderful it is to know that someone is waiting for us at the finish line.

I remember times in my life where I've asked God for direction and honestly, I couldn't hear His answer. I felt abandoned. I felt so alone and helpless. But continuing to do my best and remain faithful to His calling, I pressed on. Then direction for my life seemed to suddenly appear right before my eyes! Out of nowhere, I had answers to my questions. Now I don't have to worry about where I'm going. I simply need to allow His GPS (God's Perfect Solution) to work on my behalf. The old song says, "Ain't no need to worry..." I feel like singing!

Not Just An Ordinary Day

2008-08-25T21:29:00.004-04:00

Five o'clock AM came early this morning! But that was when I needed to leave for Indianapolis if I wanted to catch my early morning flight home to Florida. Instead of taking the interstate, we took every back road in Indiana and passed every corn field known to mankind while we drove in the early morning darkness. I felt like a rat in a maze. Sirius radio (channel 65 bluegrass) played over Bose speakers is the bomb. That will keep you awake for sure. I'll never understand how a plane's equipment has malfunctioned during the night!!! While it sits quietly in the night, something just goes wrong with a piece of equipment. Go figure. That is why my 8:15 flight didn't leave until 11:30 once another plane arrived from Detroit that we could use on down to Orlando. Believe me when I say that once Kim picked me up, it was worth every frustration I had experienced along the way! It feels good to be home for a few days... at least until Thursday morning. I already have so many meetings and things scheduled while I am here, I'm sure the time will pass too quickly.

Tonight we all went to dinner at Bayridge Sushi! The boys are little pigs when it comes to sushi. Even Tate enjoyed tonight's selections. Kim is slowly acquiring a taste for sushi, and that is saying a lot, especially if you know how much she loves Cracker Barrel. Tate wanted his usual ice cream cone from McDonald's on the way home. I have no idea where he had the room to put it. (Most of it is probably in the floorboard of my truck.)

It feels good to be home. The past few days I haven't had a good internet connection so I chose not to blog. Thursday's rehearsal went great (note: earlier blog), and Friday I washed clothes, did the Wal-Mart thing, and did some songwriting. Saturday my buddy picked me up at the Purdue airport and he flew me down to the Indianapolis airshow which was spectacular! He flies his plane better and smoother than I drive my truck. That is the honest truth. We had a great day watching the airshow and sampling the 1,000+ food vendors. I must admit the Texas-style brisket was worth walking down to Indianapolis for. After flying back to Lafayette, I met a friend for some Italian and slept like a baby! Sunday's services were anointed and powerful! It is great to have a game-plan, and even better when those leading the services are Spirit-led, sensitive to God's desire for that particular service, and willing to get out of the way so He can have His way in our lives. After a Sunday of services, multiple delays today, and only four hours of sleep last night, it is time to hit the pillow. I love Florida!

Rehearsals

2008-08-21T16:48:00.002-04:00

When I was a kid it seemed many churches would get in about 10 quality minutes of rehearsing and then pray the remaining 50 minutes of the hour. Actually, there is much good that can come out of those numbers. And somehow through the years it seems we slowly got to where we would practice 50 minutes and then pray for about 10 more. (if that long) I suppose there is some good out of rehearsing your music and presentation. However, the ideal situation would be where you begin a rehearsal with prayer, rehearse the full hour, and then pray once again just to make sure you are still in tune with God.

Tonight I have a rehearsal with the musicians and worship team. I've been planning the rehearsal all week, and will probably do it something like this:

Welcome
Prayer
Introduce a few songs...
Teach the parts to all of the singers, not just the main singers.
Allow musicians to fine tune their accompaniment parts.
Put it all together.
Allow each participant to see their time hasn't been wasted.
Make any necessary announcements...
End with another time of prayer.

Wow! That wasn't too hard now was it? We will learn several new songs tonight in 90 minutes and have a great time singing them on Sunday. Do this each week and soon you will find people enjoy coming to rehearsals and services. Success doesn't happen accidentally. Success must be planned for. Proper planning prevents pitifully poor performances. The Six P's.

It's been a great day! I bought a ticket to fly home Monday and will be there until Thursday (mid-morning) when I fly back to Indianapolis for rehearsal next week. I will be so glad to see my family again. I might even have a quick rehearsal on the plane if there are enough interested passengers.

Greatness

2008-08-20T11:32:00.001-04:00

Yesterday I decided to go run a few errands and somehow ended up over at the campus of Purdue University. The campus is beautiful and very busy as students are coming back for the fall semester. I was in between breakfast and lunch and ended up at famous local hangout called Triple XXX Hamburgers. It was featured on the Food Network recently, and even though I’ve eaten there before, this time I decided to order one of their hamburgers. I wasn’t disappointed with my decision. As I was leaving, my friend Mike called to see if I wanted to ride down with him to southern Indiana since he needed to visit one of his job sites. We had an enjoyable ride together and discussed everything from A-Z. He is also a sushi lover and we stopped at Ocean World and had a soft shell crab roll. Oh my! Everyone needs a friend who shares their love for sushi. As we drove back to Lafayette, I shot a video of the roadside corn fields and emailed it to Spencer’s phone. Somehow, he wasn’t impressed with all those rows of corn.

We drove by the office and picked up Mike’s wife, Pam. Then we were on our way to dinner at a place called The Other Pub. The menu was fantastic and we sampled several items as we discussed life, family, and ministry, among other things. As we finished with dinner, a high school women’s volleyball team came in to eat. My friends knew some of the parents of the players. As one of the dads came over to our table, it was clear he knew my friends. Mike introduced us, and later shared with me their friend was an Indiana state senator. On the way home, I began to think how possible it is to be in the presence of someone who is considered great or famous, yet we don’t even realize it. By the way he dressed (coming from his daughter’s volleyball game), I would have never guessed he was a state senator. He certainly didn’t feel the need to let me know what he did for a living. I am amazed how great people so often simply fit in and have a way of blending in the crowd without drawing attention. They don’t have to remind you of their greatness, any past accomplishments, or how smart they are. Greatness doesn’t have to be advertised.

Mondays

2008-08-18T12:36:00.004-04:00

This is the day that the Lord has made... I will rejoice and be glad in it. Yesterday was awesome! The services were great and the worship was anointed. I miss the boys and Kim so much now, and took this morning to find some flights home during the next few weeks. This morning I met with a young man who has taken an interest in piano and we worked on a few things in the sanctuary. It reminds me of back when I was younger and had the time and energy to practice all day long with my music.

Today the boys went back to school and I feel badly that I wasn't able to go with Tate on his first day of kindergarten. Kim told me how Tate woke up, dressed himself, didn't want to eat any breakfast, and asked her not to walk him into the classroom once they arrived at school. She did anyway, and he walked over and hung his backpack up on the wall, sat down and said, "bring it on". I guess when you are a rock star and you've just completed your first three month summer tour, the first day of kindergarten really isn't a huge deal. He is growing up so fast... too fast. In fact, last night one of the girls at church (about 19 years old) shared with me how Tate told her she could be his Indiana girlfriend... because he didn't have one up here, but he had plenty in other states. Ha! He was only here from Tuesday night until Thursday! More than anything I want to see him used by God in the kingdom. Knowing that he is our last child, our baby, makes it a bit more special. Spencer and Colton have kind of found themselves already involved in ministry and things of the Lord, and for that I am very thankful. I want to see us all involved in ministry together as a family. Someday soon...

I always enjoy spending time with seniors, those who are older and have already been down many of life’s paths that I am just now experiencing. They are filled with wisdom and most have such funny stories to share that are unbelievable! Tonight was no different as I was invited over to the pastor’s house for a spaghetti dinner. His wife cooked a delicious meal! I had also forgotten how much I love sweet tea. A special treat for me was to spend some time with the bishop of the church, his lovely wife, and their grandson. After forgetting how to spell “moderation” when it comes to a plate of spaghetti, we ate and made our way into the living room. There I heard so many wonderful stories from “back in the day”.

Somehow, I could almost relate to stories of trading a guitar amplifier for a gallon of gasoline. Driving seven hours to get to your next concert or service even sounded familiar. Mentioning little towns in the south that even I had forgotten about brought back some wonderful memories. Bringing up people’s names from many years ago made me feel extremely old! Stories about the Sullivan family, Ricky Skaggs, Marty Stuart, Carroll McGruder, and others made me want to be a musician again! (FYI: Today I did write a new song using my Apple MacBook Pro and USB keyboard in the motorhome.) It felt good to get back into the rhythm of writing.

An added bonus to the evening was when the pastor’s wife brought out pastor’s collection of instruments including banjo, dobro, an indian flute, etc. Why did I attempt to play the banjo in front of such accomplished musicians? Why risk such embarrassment? I’m talking people who have performed with hall of fame bluegrass musicians. How can someone not enjoy the ringing of a banjo? (Even with me playing it.) The dobro’s tones are rich and soothing. Don’t ask why, but I always have to bust out with a mid-tempo version of “Unclouded Day” whenever I pick up a banjo. It is the best piece in my repertoire, unless you count “Cripple Creek” which I first heard while watching Hee Haw on Saturday evenings. (I honestly watched that show because of the musical talent, not the additional visuals.) I’ve noticed that “Cripple Creek” catches even the ears of those who are most disinterested. My playing was so … for lack of a better word, impressive and soothing, that one of my listeners decided to sleep for about 50 minutes in the recliner. (I am reminded of when Saul requested little David to come serenade him.)

I’m a bit tired tonight and not sure if I can even endure the USA vs. China Olympic gymnastics competition. I believe tonight’s topics of conversation may have something to do with my fatigue: Travels to Korea, India, Israel, Indianapolis, etc., brush arbor meetings, tent revivals, tomato tossing (not to be confused with midget tossing), three week revivals, soul winning, Purdue Boilermakers, Indiana Hoosiers, airports and airlines, guitar-playing evangelists who sport guitars made by Martin, Gretsch, Stella, accordions, high school pep rallies, TBN, television preachers, the Mormons, the Masons, among many other topics of choice. I am so tired! It's been a very good Monday. Goodnight.

Weekends

2008-08-16T19:55:00.004-04:00

I had a great day today! Rehearsal went very good and we accomplished so much. I took my guitar case over to the store where I purchased it over a year ago, and they replaced mine with a new one. Probably because I am a superstar. No, it was a GATOR case that has a lifetime warranty and the store said Gator would probably just send them a replacement. I was appreciative and played some more Martin D28's as if I was interested in buying one. NOT. I finally set up my Apple MacBook Pro laptop, keyboard, and accessories on the dining table and it feels good to be somewhat productive again. Dinner was at Little Mexico II with pastor and his wife. We had a great time together and now I am back at the motorhome watching one of the two channels on the television. CBS isn't my favorite channel to watch, but the other available channel is Trinity Broadcast Network. I think I'll just rest up for tomorrow's services. I hope everyone has a terrific weekend!

My prayer was answered! After adjusting the antenna, I now can pick up a fuzzy (and weird shade of green) NBC, which means I can watch the olympics! It is killing my eyes to watch it but I want to show my patriotism. Seriously, I took my guitar over to the sanctuary earlier and had a wonderful time of worship... all alone, no one around except me and my Lord Jesus. He has been my Savior for quite some time now, but I'm trying to make him Lord of my life. I'm finding out there is a big difference. Time just flew by during my solo concert for "One". I remember 20 years ago, long before we had children, I used to spend Saturday nights along at the church and work on music and just prepare my mind and heart for the next day's services. It is a wonderful feeling.

I talked with Kim earlier and found out Spencer is playing his "Nashville" harmonica non-stop. Tate wants to share in the playing time as well. I can only imagine how much food particles must be lodged in the far corners of that harmonica! They've played the drums all summer long in the back of my head, on the back of my seat while I'm driving. Somehow, I miss that tonight. It is so quiet here. I hope to get quite a lot of work done this upcoming week. There are some loose ends I need to take care of on a few projects.

I also spoke with a pastor friend of mine from Nashville. I am so glad he called me. We had another one of those conversations about real passion for worship, real purpose in worship, and the real presence of worship. I became so excited about worship during the conversation, I knew I had to head over to the sanctuary after the conversation. (discussed earlier) I admire pastors who desire to think out-of-the-box, with unscripted corporate worship services. If we aren't careful, we will become just like every other church up and down the street... more show and less power. People's lives are at stake. I never want to become so big (in the way) that my agenda is more important that God's plan for a worship service. It's all about Him. I can't wait for tomorrow!

Another Friday

2008-08-15T10:35:00.004-04:00

My how time passes by so quickly! I am all alone now that the boys are back in Orlando. They all seem to be doing well. Today I went to the Verizon store to see about getting internet connection for my laptop via my phone. $49.95 monthly. I said no thanks to that. A stop by the music store to play more mandolins and Martin acoustic guitars satisfied me for a short while. This evening a friend of mine took me out in the country to an auction. A real live auction where many Amish folk (and German Baptists) had gathered to buy one another's non-powered junk. It took me back about 25+ years or so! Then it was time for sushi which brought me back to earth.

The Perfect Man

2008-08-14T10:38:00.001-04:00

That was the message at last night’s service. It was perfect timing for the boys and I to hear. Although, none of us are perfect, we need to strive for perfection continually. Today the boys will fly back home to Orlando and I can honestly say it has been a wonderful summer with very few hiccups along the way. We’ve shared in ministry and grown closer in the process. I can’t help but believe God has some great things in store for us all.

Today began like most days for us with Tate and I eating a bowl of cereal while Colton slept. We’ll pack their bags and head toward the airport around 2:30. They’ll fly home to Orlando and start school on Tuesday. I know Kim will love having them back home (for a few days at least), until the boy stuff kicks in. I will miss them so much once they’re gone! I miss Spencer and Kim very much. When I get back from making the airport run, I need to find some tickets online to fly home a few times in the next several weeks. My plan is to make it home in between weekends that I’ll work, until I make my way back down to Florida with the motor home.

For now, I’ll continue being a Purdue Boilermaker while I spend some time in Lafayette, Indiana. I’ll write more once I get back from the airport.

A Good Run

2008-08-13T14:22:00.003-04:00

The boys are inside the church washing some clothes. Today is there last full day with me, as their summer is coming to an end. They'll fly home tomorrow evening out of Indianapolis and return to school on Tuesday. I'm going to miss them badly. I miss Kim so much and I know it probably wasn't as enjoyable she may have first imagined... having the house to herself, no messes, no arguments to settle among the boys, etc. Just peace and quiet, and some time for herself. Now that the boys are going to be back home, I'll need to get a few flights back to Orlando during the week, and work my way back home with the RV while working the weekends.

All in all, it has been a very rewarding summer for us! The boys have seen a side of ministry and God's work they had never seen before. If we aren't careful, we'll convince ourselves the rest of the world (and church) is just like it is in our neat little box. This is simply not the truth. We've been places where it is a real struggle for those in leadership just to "have church". I hope we've been a blessing and an encouragement to those congregations. Then there were places where the technology was up-to-date, the pews were filled to capacity, and everything was put together so professionally. And to God be the glory! All of this brings things into perspective for me. On this journey to find my place in God's kingdom, there are a few things I must consider:

- To be where I'm wanted, needed, valued, and appreciated. (Don't we all?)
- Have a maximum impact in making a difference in the lives of many.
- Find stability for my family in our schedules and time spent together.
- Be where we are allowed to participate in ministry as a family.
- Allow God to use us in the kingdom without strings attached, or limitations.
- Above all, make sure my family is saved.

In the spirit of the olympics (which we've been watching lately at night), I do want to run a good race. I want to run the race with my family. I want to run with my friends. I want to be a finisher. My eyes are on the prize, and I want to hear Him say well done.

1968

2008-08-13T00:28:00.004-04:00

Talk about being tired!!! Oh my goodness! Getting to sleep around 2:30 AM doesn't help the next day when you know you are driving 350 miles. I normally don't need an alarm on travel days and this morning was no different. 7:00 came and my eyes were wide open. After unplugging and getting ready to leave town, we finally pulled out around 8:00. The traffic wasn't too bad. We made good time. In fact, we were making such good time, I decided to exit south of Louisville, KY and head on over to the Ft. Knox area. Many of my friends know I was raised in Mississippi, but most people don't realize I was born in Ft. Knox, KY and my dad retired from the Army when I was 4 or 5 years old. The reason I know I was that young is because I started first grade in Thaxton, MS in 1968. (Google that town if you want to have a good laugh.) So, I do have a few memories of Kentucky life. (Probably because I am so intelligent.) NOT!

As I exited off of I-65, the sign said to the right -----> Birthplace of Abraham Lincoln, and to the left <----- Radcliff 12 miles, Ft. Knox 16 miles, etc. By this time I'm thinking how cool it is that people can choose either to visit Lincoln's birthplace or come see my old stomping grounds. Now that I've admitted to myself of being in the middle of a mid-life crisis, I turned left with intentions of re-discovering my past. Here are a few of the more pleasant things I remember of Kentucky life:

- No. 1 pleasant memory: the mobile home and park where we lived. (Go Springer!)
- Our Volkswagon beetle bug. Don't ask me how a family of six survived with a beetle bug.
- Snow-sledding down a hill on a car hood turned up-side down (possibly at a city park)
- At church there was an upright bass and an accordian (there is a possibility of the accordian being a tuba.) I admit, I may be getting the tuba mixed up with a church in South Mississippi combined with one marching bass drum.
- The 45+ minute drive on curvy roads while going to church.
- One day my dad (maybe my mom was present also) took me to see the Ft. Knox gold vault! I was told if we walked across the painted lines on the driveway, that tanks and guns would come up out of the ground to ZAP us into dust!

I realize that is quite an impressive list for a little tot like myself. Today, the timing was perfect. Colton was asleep up top, and Tate was crashed on the couch. Can I be honest here? It was very strange for me to be returning to my birthplace after being gone forty years. I've never gone back in all these years. There's been no reason to ever go back... until today. And there I was, heading straight toward 1968 as fast as I could go. I drove into Radcliff where we once lived and could hear the pavement making the same noises I remembered it made when I would sit in the back seat, unable to view the road since I was too little. I also remember seeing the power lines crossing the road from the back seat... and as I looked up this morning, there was a continuous string of power lines crossing the road. Now I realize that probably wasn't even the same road. And it probably wasn't 4-laned back then. But none of that mattered to me today. It was the sights and sounds that got my attention. About three miles of highway driving reminded me just how powerful memories can be. The mind can be so haunting. I noticed how unattractive the town looked. I passed by two mobile home dealerships and thought about stopping to ask where the most popular parks might be where military families might have lived. My heart was racing. I drove past them and continued on. Then I passed a couple of parks myself, but decided to keep going. I wasn't sure I could handle all that I was feeling inside. Lucky for me, the boys were still asleep and I wouldn't have to explain why I was crying and a total mess.

I began to think backward to the past 45 years and wondered if those were the best years of my life. I simply divided the years by the two seasons of my life (the places I've lived), while rewinding my life's video on high-speed. There I saw the good and the bad, the mountain tops and the valleys, the joy and the pain. I easily decided the best is yet to come. Suddenly, a calmness came into the RV. I began to see the potential that lies ahead. All the good that can be transferred into the lives of so many... that was encouraging to me. Faces of those who surround my life now flashed in front of my face. God began to show me the rewards of taking the high road in life, while allowing Him to handle situations and people on my behalf. The future suddenly seemed so much brighter!

I gathered my emotions, and woke the boys up to eat breakfast at Burger King, only to find out it was 11:30 and they were serving lunch. I was trying to remember when and where we left the central time zone and entered back into the eastern time zone. We decided not to eat at BK, and drove into Ft. Knox. Actually, what happened was I took what appeard to be the only exit around, which was called E. and W. Bullion Road. I turned eastward and immediately drove past what I remembered to be the GOLD VAULT! I felt like a billionaire! But not for long because we were directly in front of the gate of the military base. The nice officer met us out front and motioned us into the U-turn lane. I'm thinking, what could be giving us away? I felt so discriminated against. Ha Could it be the RV??? I explained to him about my mid-life crisis, and he smiled and allowed me to make the u-turn. We then stopped in front of what I believed to be the same gates my dad took me to years ago, and I looked up the long driveway to the gold vault! Just as I snapped the picture, I heard a man's voice on the speaker system say, NO BLOCKING THE DRIVEWAY! I pulled out into the road, scared for my life, and read the sign that said ABSOLUTELY NO PICTURES! I must have used about $35 of fuel in the next quarter of a mile!

The boys voted on White Castle (again), and then we cruised through Louisville as I answered Colton's question of why there are so many Jewish Hospitals in Louisville. My answer was, "Hey, did you know Muhammed Ali is from Louisville?" It was a lame answer, I know. We crossed the river into Indiana and the corn fields put us all to sleep. I didn't wake up until we were sitting in the parking lot of the mall, north of Indianapolis. We took our time and finally made it to Lafayette, IN around 7pm. It has been an interesting and rewarding day for me! Oh great! Thanks to the time change, it is now almost 1:00 AM!

Music Row

2008-08-11T17:49:00.003-04:00

First of all, let me say one big "I'm sorry" to all of you who are giving me grief about not blogging the past week. What am I supposed to do? Just say, "excuse me Vince and Amy, I need to go blog while you grill my steak medium-well." (Vince = Vince Gill, Amy = Amy Grant) Haha! I can't tell you how much fun we've been having in Nash-Vegas the past ten or so days! To all of our friends here, let me say a million thanks for all you've done in making our stay the most wonderful time. You have helped us in so many ways, and I pray God will reimburse you greatly for your kindness.

The services have been awesome! The town is amazing! The people are so friendly! Colton played out with some friends, and made some new friends in the music business. It was great hanging with Ryan, Chauntay, and Teresa. (Thanks for the BBQ!) And after playing with Adam Clarke, Colton has convinced me to buy my own mandolin. I even picked around on a few of them today at the music store. I also played some Martin D28's that sold between $1,800 and $3,900. I told the salesman I would need to get back to him with my decision. But the mandolins really were sweet! I can probably pick one up without a permission slip.

I got chills when I turned on to Oak Valley Lane where my friend Kevin McManus has produced so many wonderful and anointed tunes! I can't imagine all the hundreds of world-renowned musicians and singers who have graced that studio with their talents through the years. I felt magic simply by walking through the door.

Last night's dinner at Shoney's was more than a typical Shoney's experience. We were able to hang out with my long-time friend David W. Huff (of David & the Giants fame). It had been way too long! I am always amazed at those who are as gifted as David is. I've known him for 30 years and he was as dazzling last night as I've ever seen him. After we did our concert near Opryland Hotel, we hurried over to where he was playing to catch the end of his concert. After doing his signature song, "Noah", and as the altar call was being given, the pastor asked if I would come play along on the keyboard. I must say, it all brought back memories of when I was 15 years old... and would often do the same thing. It was moments like those that played such a big part in me wanting to become a musician. I felt the same little tingle last night... and today I've decided once again that when I grow up, I want to become a musician.

The other night I took the boys downtown to see the sights. I love walking the streets, shopping in the tourist traps, doing Printer's Alley, and listening to the music coming outside onto the sidewalk! It seems to sound more clear in Nashville. I really can't explain it. I did however notice the best sounding system I heard all night was the honky tonk using JBL speakers for their house mains and monitors. Man I love JBL! And no, even though I was taunted and made fun of for not "sitting in" with any of the bands, I remained strong outside on the sidewalk, and simply walked away from trouble... (in the words of a Kenny Rogers tune).

Other things I love about Nashville:
(in no particular order)

Opryland Hotel & Opry Mills Outlet Mall
ALL of our friends in town... (too numerous to try to name)
Cock of the Walk (best catfish in town)
The thrill I feel when I am on Music Row
The weather whenever it isn't too hot
Downtown Nashville, Printer's Alley, Broadway Ave.
White Castle between downtown and 17th Avenue
Vanderbilt University area
Rotier's Restaurant
Tennessee Titans' football stadium
The view of downtown from many parts of the city

This list could go on an on... but I'll stop at this point.

I need to let you know the best hamburger I've had (possibly EVER) is across from Vanderbilt University at Rotier's! Even with all of my Food Network experience, even I never thought of placing a hamburger on french bread. The onion straws weren't too bad either. All in all, Nashville is a terrific town!

Tired Tuesdays

2008-08-05T11:49:00.003-04:00

There is no reason for me to be tired. Yesterday was a play day and we had fun at Opry Mills outlet mall. I slept pretty good last night and there's really no explanation for feeling tired this morning. I was up late working on some projects but that shouldn't have me worn out already. I probably just miss Kim and Spencer, and miss being at home. I think I'll buy some tickets to go back home some during the week once the boys go back to school. Then make it back up north and work around those days that I am home. Yeah! That sounds like a great idea. I've got a lot of things in the cooker that I'm hoping to pull together in the fall. God is blessing us while on the road. We've had great services, good health, and He has kept us safe while traveling. I felt impressed to go out on the road this summer for several reasons I've already written about in earlier blogs. It seems that God has done His work in us. He is preparing us for something wonderful in the days ahead. There are some things that only God can do in our lives. Sometimes we just need to get away from the normal routines in our life, and allow Him to speak to us. He has done that very thing in the lives of my boys and myself. I have confidence that in His time, all things will come together. And on that note, I don't have any reason to worry. But I am still tired this morning.

The Answer

2008-08-04T10:27:00.004-04:00

What a wonderful morning it is here in Nashville! Actually, I haven't been outside yet, and our room is completely dark, which is conducive to a good night's rest. When you think on it, any morning you are able to wake up, that is a great morning! And today is such a day. Today I am thankful for a wonderful family, good health, a sound mind, (we all have our own opinions), and a great expectation in my heart for all that God has in store for me and my family. I also found the answer to the origin of the saying, "The early bird gets the worm." The meaning is "success comes to those who prepare well and put in effort." This was first recorded in John Ray's A collection of English proverbs 1670, 1678: "The early bird catcheth the worm."
Clearly, the title of the work indicates that this was considered proverbial even in the 17th century. It also held true yesterday.

Yesterday was everything I thought it would be! The worship was anointed and the preaching was right on target for our lives. My boys have been so blessed to see and experience such positives moves of God this summer. As Colton was praying last night after the message, I was reminded of my growing up days where we played music and sang as teenagers. It was refreshing to see him praying when he could have been playing instead. We need more of that in our churches. We need singers and musicians who desire to pray more than they desire to play or sing. Often we see the complete opposite.

This summer I've tried to teach the boys to practice and prepare as much as possible. We've had one big summer-long music lesson, and its been so much fun! I love my boys very much. Kim and I are so blessed to have them in our lives. I also love my boys being boys! I'm glad they love to play ball, and do things that guys normally do. I've seen them in many different situations this summer. They've met a lot of new friends. They love God, and they love girls! I'm not complaining, especially when I think about the alternative. Are they perfect? No way! Am I perfect? Not hardly. But I love watching them grow up, learning to love God, and wanting to be used by Him. We've also learned the importance of relying on God, and needing Him to bless everything we do. Along with practicing and planning musically, we're also discovering the need for spiritual preparation. We're on a journey ... and I'm excited to see where God will take us, if we allow Him to lead the way.

Our short-term journey led us to Opry Mills outlet mall today. We visited the Gibson Showcase guitar center and it is unbelievably expensive! (We didn't stay long.) I ripped off a Jaco Pastorious solo on a $7,000.00 upright acoustic bass and honestly, I laughed out loud at that crazy deal. Then I played "Cripple Creek" on a dobro with the plastic keychain in my pocket, even though it is a banjo tune. Next I tickled out a tune on the mandolin, and even impressed myself, seeing that I don't even know how to play one that well (or at all). Ha! Finally, I picked up a banjo and was going to play it... until I nearly threw my back out! If they sold banjos by the pound, it would cost a fortune for a good banjo! It weighs more than the RV we are driving! I breathed deeply and played another version of "Cripple Creek" which was not much better than my attempt on the dobro. At this point, since there was no circle of people around me requesting Ricky Skaggs or Marty Stuart tunes on another instrument, I quickly bought a Jim Dunlop purple plastic guitar gadget that helps unwind the tuning pegs when changing out strings. $2.50 total. Ladies and gentlemen, the Graham's have left the building...

The rest of our mall experience is as follows: After the guitar shop catastrophe, I bought The Prayer of Jabez book for $2.00, an Orange Julius from DQ, and a massage at the Lil' Asian Rub-Down kiosk. (I'm almost certain those lil people are licensed. They have to carry some type of credentials to be that good.) And even if they aren't licensed, or even legal citizens of our great country, today's rub was my way of helping strengthen the world's economy. What's $20 +tip for 25 minutes of quiet time with the Lord, right? I just didn't appreciate hearing people snicker as they walked by... even if they are my own children. The purpose for the mall outing was that I needed a pair of dress shoes, so I bought a new pair. I'm not going to justify this purchase because well, I'm just not going to. All I will say is, I bought a man's shoe for a man's foot. In other words, the end of the shoe stops at the end of my toes. They don't continue on for another 18-22 inches. They are shoes made for men. Next stop: the jewelry cleaning guy. Did he really think I was going to purchase that magic liquid? Why did I need it? He just cleaned my ring! And the Dead Sea girl with the seductive accent... I knew more about her product than she did. I can't tell you how much of that stuff I've bought Kim in the past two years of traveling. At least I had my right forearm cleaned, along with one of my hands, and one arm lotioned. Why should I buy from her? My skin was in better shape than hers! The first asking price was "only" $80. One eye-roll later, it came down to her cost, which was only $39. As I was walking away, I heard something like "I will throw in a bunch of extras... etc.", and I have to admit, this time I felt a wee bit guilty for telling her no. That quickly faded as I looked up and saw the food court.

The Early Bird Gets The Worm

2008-08-02T07:58:00.004-04:00

I have no idea where that saying came from, but after waking up this morning before 6:00 I have every intention of finding out! There is no reason to ever wake up on a Saturday morning any earlier than 8:00 or so. Then I'm reminded of the days where I usually wake up early and awesome things happen later in the day. I'm guessing today will be such a day. I need to finish preparing for a 10:00 AM rehearsal and get the boys some breakfast.

Spencer called me last night and sounded very tired. His football practice went well and he was excited to get new cleats, a new mouthpiece, and his helmet. They will practice again today. He told me he weighed yesterday and was three pounded under the weight limit. I knew he would do well and told him not to sweat it this summer... to just have fun and not worry about those things. If I had five practices a week for a month to prepare for a football season, there is no telling how much I might lose! Hmmm Nah. Truth is, I rebounded for Tate last night after dinner in the basketball gym next door for a short while, and this morning I could hardly get out of bed and walk! That is sad isn't it? I am so ashamed. I'm going to blame last night's wonderful catfish dinner.

Rehearsal went well, as we learned four songs in 80 minutes. That makes for a productive time. I tend to move quickly through a rehearsal, mainly to keep people interested in the music, and to actually accomplish more in the time we have together. People feel positive about the music when their time is appreciated, and when they are made to feel as if they've accomplished something significant for their efforts. I also understand that great rehearsals are usually a result of someone doing their job long before I've arrived to town. I appreciate those who faithfully work in the music programs of today's church. At times, it can be a thankless job. I realize it is because of others' talents and sacrifices that I am able to do what I do each week. And knowing that God Himself will reward us with blessings from Heaven makes it all worthwhile.

The mexican fajita lunch has begun to settle and I feel a nap coming on. I normally don't nap, but tonight some of the young people are playing volleyball in the gym, and I've already been asked to "bring my game" to the court. Ha!

No nap for me. Nothing but noise in the room. I thought I would be nice and take the boys to Sam Ash Music store for a while. I let Tate tear up the drum room, then asked if he would come with me to the acoustic guitar room while I looked at some of Nashville's finest. Colton immediately grabbed a $3,200 Martin acoustic guitar, and Tate swung around the room using various guitars hanging from the wall. After a few glances from the salesman, and knowing I was fighting a losing battle with Tate, we simply left. A quick run through Dairy Queen and then we were back at the church for a night of fellowship on the volleyball court. I left my game on the sideline tonight. I hated to disappoint all my fans. Ha! We just got back to the room and hopefully things will quieten down soon. I need to study tonight since the pastor (who is a preaching machine) asked if we could "tag-team" in the morning about worship. I'll help lead the worship and speak for a short while. I can't wait to see what all God has in store for us!

Music City U.S.A.

2008-08-01T08:51:00.003-04:00

It is a lovely morning in Knoxville, TN and we are preparing to pull out and head toward Nashville. I always love going to Nashville. It is one of my favorite cities to visit. Knoxville is becoming one of my favorites each time I visit. No wonder so many people are relocating to the Smokies. The people are wonderful, the food is great, the pace of life seems just perfect, and the church is fabulous! I feel as if God has helped me turn the corner (again) on some things in my life, while I've been here.

There is so much for us to do while in Nashville. So many friends to see, and then there is the music industry to "take in". Enough of this. I need to just sign off and get this gang moving down I-40 east. Later!

I must say the drive from Knoxville to Nashville is one of the prettiest in the country. I really love going those mountains. We made it here in great time. Colton and Tate both slept while I drove. (I actually slept while at the wheel, but only after coming over the mountains as the road leveled out. Just kidding!) We arrived at the church, went to lunch (gyros) with pastor. I love being with real people. Real people make up for the artificial ones we meet from time to time. I've noticed that real people are usually kingdom minded. They are humble and meek, and seem to prefer others. They often give unselfishly to others, and do so without any strings attached. And no matter where you go, everyone speaks highly of them, because they are "real". Anyway, as good as the gyros were, the fellowship and conversation was even better. We covered enough material to outline a music and ministry conference. Ha! I'm the lucky one, just to be here this weekend. I'm going to absorb every moment I can, and carry it with me the rest of the year.

After lunch we checked into the evangelist quarters. Wow! Talk about nice! I'm trying to keep the boys out of the welcome basket and fridge long enough to make it to dinner. We have a rehearsal at 10:00 in the morning with the worship team. We'll have the afternoon and evening free. Then it will be Super-Sunday! I know we're going to have a great time! It's almost time for dinner. I'd better get this gang ready to go...

Another Airport Run...

2008-07-31T16:29:00.003-04:00

Today is Spencer's last day with us on the tour. He is flying home just in time to make it for August football practices. He is acting like a big-shot since he is flying alone (non-stop) from Knoxville to Orlando. There is no telling all the things he will tell to those sitting around him on the flight home. To my surprise, Spencrer has really done well with the traveling this summer. His heart is so big for God. Spencer will be going into the 6th grade this fall. I am so proud of him. He is always on honor roll and does his best at whatever he sets his mind to do. We will miss him so much as we continue to travel some...

We spent a couple of days over in Pigeon Forge again, and I've had enough of the Smokies to last a while. In the morning we are leaving for Nashville! We'll be there for about 11 days, then we'll head up through Kentucky and on to Indianapolis, where Colton and Tate will fly home to start school. I guess I'd better get Spencer to the airport now since I am speaking tonight at service. I wouldn't want to get caught in city traffic while church is going on. More later...

As things turned out, I needed to stay with Spencer until his flight took off, so I wasn't able to speak tonight. I guess God figured that could wait until next time. Spencer and I enjoyed a nice meal at Ruby Tuesday's across from Gate 2 at the Knoxville airport. He is growing so fast! My lil buddy starts middle school next month. I am so proud of him. He felt like a rock-star with his guitar strapped around his shoulders and me leading the way in my church suit. Haha! He sent me a text when he landed and I am sure he is happy to be back home. Football practices start for him tomorrow.

I raced back to the church service and arrived just as it was ending. Pastor asked me to end the service with a couple of songs, so I did just that, and God's presence was very real to me. It was nice just to sit around after service and talk with all God's people. I no longer wonder what people's agenda might be when we are together. I try to see people as a living soul, where everyone is equal and we all are God's children. I have a calling on my life and try to fulfill that as best I can. I have learned to leave the rest up to God. He is in control of things now.

We came back to pastor's house and just sat around and ate some sandwiches and chips while enjoying the fellowship with some of the saints. Tomorrow is a travel day and we need to be in Nashville by mid-afternoon. Tate crashed early, after having a long day, at Cracker Barrel, the laundromat, practicing drums at the church, and tonight's service... all without a nap! I miss Spencer already. I miss mom.

Foundations

2008-07-29T09:19:00.002-04:00

I wish I could get inside Tate's head. He woke up this morning and said, "Dad, are we going to the church today?" I answered him, "No, not today". Then I saw a huge disappointed look on his face. Now, I'm sure he will be just fine once our day gets started, but for a moment he was looking forward to being in God's house. I say, mission accomplished! I remember when I was his age, and most of my memories revolved around going to church. I don't regret that at all. It is part of my heritage. It is the foundation to my life.

My idea of our little summer tour was mostly to have some time with the boys, "away from the norm", and hopefully be able to show them another side of God's Kingdom and ministry. We are finding out that everyone, everywhere is not the same. All churches are different in some way. It doesn't matter where we are or how many show up to hear us play. All that matters is that we find God's presence and help lead others to Him. Every person counts, they have a soul. Everyone needs God in their lives. And regardless of a person may be in their relationship with Christ, there needs to be a solid foundation. I've looked forward to this summer with the boys because I knew it would be a time we could begin a new foundation for the plans that God wants to build in our lives. It is an exciting time!

The week ahead...

2008-07-28T11:28:00.004-04:00

As awesome as Sundays usually are... Mondays are at the other end of the spectrum. It is usually a play day and that part is great! But the checking out of hotels can be challenging with my bunch. Everyone getting cleaned up, making sure the boys are all packed up, and paying for room damages (just kidding), are all part of the routine. Then I call downstairs and plead the front desk for a late check-out. Then like I said earlier, it is usually play time! All we have on today's agenda is check out of hotel, meet pastor and family for lunch, meet with Uncle Jimmy's relatives before taking Kim to the airport for her flight back home.

The boys and I plan on hanging out in the Smokies, singing Ronnie Milsap songs, and spending money we really don't have on rides, putt putt, go-carts, and other amusements the Pigeon Forge/Gatlinburg area has to offer. Spencer is "leaving the tour" Thursday night. (That sounds like it should be in a gossip magazine, all except, no one really cares, and it wouldn't sell very many copies.) Anyway, he is trading in his music career for the gridiron. He plays Pop Warner football in the fall and practices begin August 1st. Spencer likes to compare himself to Shaquille O'Neal, part musician/rapper, part athelete, and part Superman. All of this means I'd better stop blogging and start packing my bag. Happy Monday to all!

Wouldn't you know it, as we were leaving the hotel and heading to lunch, the passenger door to the motorhome flung open! Apparently, Ford thinks I am made of money and they want to do me harm today. The pastor called a local mechanic who thinks he can repair the inside latch mechanism (do I sound like I know what I'm talking about?) by the end of the day. Problem is though, Kim 's flight is at 7:30 tonight and we've got to get her to the airport in plenty of time. When it rains, it pours. Honestly, I can't complain. God has been very good to us this summer, and He has kept his hand of protection on us. For that, I am most thankful. I've learned a long time ago, not to question why things happen or don't happen in our lives. It is all for a reason.

You won't believe this! The owner of the garage repaired the door latch free of charge! And he shared his life's story with me as he did the work. We had a wonderful discussion about God's grace and mercy. I couldn't help but notice how quietly my boys sat and listened to this man share of his addiction to pain killers, and how that almost ruined his life. Of how he was facing serious jail time, and about to lose his family in the process. He told me all I owed him was a prayer. I assured him I could do that for sure. After signing a couple of CDs for him, I gave them to him and encouraged him to allow the songs to speak to his life. I told the boys afterward that "the song" is only the vehicle God uses to reach the hearts of mankind. There must be more than just another pretty song. We should sing about the life-changing power of God, and His unwavering and unconditional love for us. They've finally caught on... that this summer isn't about singing and playing. It is about people. We are in the people busines. I pray we never forget that. I hope we never become so exalted that we forget about others... those who God places in our paths. Reaching people with the gospel of Christ is what life is all about. It has been a wonderful start to what I hope is a wonderful week. Now, hopefully tomorrow will be our play day!

Smokey Mountain Rain

2008-07-27T09:20:00.004-04:00

After a wonderful Saturday spent teaching a music workshop, we rested very well at the hotel last night. In fact, I feel as if I slept too hard. I was having a hard time waking up... until Tate and Spencer opened their eyes (and mouths). We're just hanging out this morning since the service is 1:00 this afternoon. Kim is going through Spencer's suitcase, declaring it a disaster zone, Tate is trying on Kim's clothes (which greatly concerns me), and Spencer is singing "Smokey Mountain Rain" with the assistance of Ronnie Milsap in the background on i-tunes.

Today promises to be an awesome of music, ministry, and friends. But first, I need to walk across the street to the RV company and pick up my newly repaired vehicle. They squeezed me in yesterday and repaired the fresh tank water hose for $5.61 (parts) and $110 for one hour's labor. Another prayer answered. You know how auto repairs can get ugly in a hurry. Tonight we'll be spending time with my stepdad's, newphew at his church. I say it this way because my stepdad is related to everyone east of the Mississippi, and south of Louisville, KY. We always joke with him about his family tree. He is a great guy with a wonderful, friendly and loving family.

I was right about today. It was one of the most powerful day of services/concerts we've had all summer! Singers are a dime a dozen. Musicians come and go. I've learned a long time ago there is always someone, somewhere who can sing and/or play better than I can. Talent alone doesn't get the job done. Talent doesn't save anyone's soul. Abilities can't change people's lives in a positive manner. I have to say that out of all the musicians and singers I heard in today's services, they weren't trying to perform. They weren't trying to impress anyone... except God. They didn't try to "out sing" the other guy or group. There is a difference in ministering in song, and simply singing a song. The world doesn't need another good singer. What we need are more singers who live the life they sing about, and who actually "minister" to the souls of the listeners. I was so impressed today by Darren Thomas. He went on last in the program, and once it was his turn, he simply began to lead the rest of us into God's presence. He didn't need an outline. He wasn't relying on lead sheets. His songs didn't have any live video footage playing in the background. There wasn't a stage filled with smoke and dry ice, with orange lights circling about the audience. When did we (the church) begin to think that God Almighty needed all of that extra stuff (I call it "fluff"), before He can move in a service. Note to all singers: If you feel you must have those "extras" for your song to be over-the-top, then maybe we need to change songs. Better yet, why don't we just change singers and allow someone whose life is anointed have a chance to sing. Oh my! I need to stop before I get too deep into this here. It is late and I might type something that will need to be edited out tomorrow. Ha! I'll save these thoughts for another time... another place.

But let me say that today was perhaps another life-changing time in my life. I've been encouraged in my spirit. I know God has his hand over my family's lives. He is preparing us for a new day. I want to be ready when His time is right. I want to be prepared when it is time to step out on faith and allow God to do His thing through us. Keep us in your prayers. I hope everyone has a wonderful week!

Early Mornings

2008-07-26T05:43:00.004-04:00

Every once in a while I wake up very early with nothing to do, nowhere to be, with nothing that is really pressing. So, I usually take that as a sign that I need to spend some extra special quiet time with the Lord. This morning is such a morning. 4:50 AM isn't my first choice for starting my day. Then I realize that our days really aren't ours in the first place. God is the giver of all our days, for this is the day that the Lord has made. And this is the time He wants to speak to me about some things in my life.

Today is Vertical Obsession which a local church here in Knoxville is sponsoring. I am thrilled to be teaching a few of the sessions along with Darren Thomas, who is is the minister of music in Youngstown, Ohio where Bishop Norman Wagner is pastor. Darren has been in ministry for a very long time, and has helped so many people with his gifts. I am honored to spend the weekend with he and his lovely wife Sonia. In today's sessions, I will be teaching on Gospel Music: The past, present, and future. Another class will be on Excellence in Music Ministry. The Lord has been dealing with me about a few things including Passion - Purpose - Perspective - Presence - and the Pursuit of Excellence. I can't wait to share what is on my heart to those who are hungry to learn more about music ministry.

The Thomas' flew in around the same time as Kim did last night so after they landed we all went to Outback with the pastor and his wife for dinner. The boys somehow arranged some activities with friends from the church. How convenient. I need to say here, just how much we are missing Kim while on the road. Even with her flying in on the weekends, it just isn't the same. I look forward to returning home and finding some normalcy to our lives. At Outback we had a lovely dinner while remembering past times together and openly sharing our vision for the future. I love to see pastors who are passionate about worship, and their music/worship programs. Those who make the greatest investments will be the ones who reap the greatest rewards. We are going to have an awesome time today!

I bought a new bible this week and I'm so excited about it! It is the New King James version John Maxwell Leadership Bible. He is my favorite author of all and to have a bible that features his teachings is a double bonus! I've also noticed Spencer has begun to study and read his bible at night before going to bed. He has a huge heart for God and it is so sweet to see him taking the time to read his bible, especially without being asked or reminded to do so. I can't help but believe that someday all the things he is reading will begin to take over his life. Speaking of the boys, they are so pumped to be in Knoxville and can't wait to play their music this weekend!

Say a prayer for me today, for I'm sure I will be dragging sometime after lunchtime. The last time I saw 4:50 AM, it was on my way to catching an early morning flight back home! I am happy to report that God is my refuge and strength, my refuge in time of trouble! Have a happy Saturday!

It has been a very long day! Kim and I just got back to the hotel and are ready to crash! All of the boys are off with their friends doing stuff and I hope staying out of trouble. Today's music workshop Vertical Obsession was life-changing for me. I was so blessed by both of Darren Thomas' sessions. He spoke breath into my life. A timely word is truly an awesome thing. I'm amazed how God uses people to reach out to others and help them make it another day. Darren wrote one of my all-time favorite gospel songs, "Lift Up Holy Hands". I've personally seen that song touch thousands of people through the years. It is interesting to me how some songs, the good songs seem timeless. They never grow old. The world is better off because of the talents of Darren Thomas. The sessions today were intimate and so relaxed. Even though there was a schedule printed, everyone present knew from the beginning that this would be a day of being sensitive to what the Spirit wanted to say. The worship was spontaneous and unpredictable. I prayed many months ago for God to allow my paths to cross with "winners" in the kingdom. He has answered my prayer. Today was a win-win for many people, including myself. I feel as if God is clearing up my vision, and giving me a passion like never before to do what He has in store for me to do. That is exciting! I am very tired... and may write more later this evening.

A New Day

2008-07-25T16:07:00.002-04:00

Those three words mean so much! A lot has happened since I last had time to blog. I left off with turning on the generator and just sleeping peacefully in the RV for the night. How was I to know of a city ordinance in Pigeon Forge that doesn't allow motor homes to park in parking lots with generators running. I have no idea how long the police officer had been outside, but I finally woke up to a whirlwind of flashlights and patrol lights accompanied by a knock on the door. After finally getting dressed, putting my glasses on, and looking somewhat presentable, I answered the door. The office was very nice and told us the bad news. I decided to just let the boys continue sleeping and finally around 2:00 AM I pulled out on to the main drag in Pigeon Forge and drove up the street to find a room for the next two nights. It was a nightmare getting the sleeping boys into the room! They woke up to strange surroundings and wondered what in the world had happened! I just played like I didn't know what they were talking about. The joke was on them! Haha

We spent yesterday making up for all the misery the night before. First thing of the morning, I took the boys out to the pool and let them swim. We were the first ones to arrive at the pool which was no surprise to me. Then two ladies about 75 years old came to swim. Both of them nearly fell down the steps into the pool, which scared the you-know-what out of me! I offered to help them out of the water when we started to leave, and they declined. I told the boys that when I am 80 years old, please don't let me swim in hotel pools. Insist that I stay in the room and study my bible, or something else worthwhile. After our swimming pool scare, we drove into Gatlinburg and took the aerial tram up to ski mountain (Ober Gatlinburg), to spend the day on top of the mountain! Once up there, we then took a lift chair up to the lookout mountain and enjoyed the scenery of TN and NC, while listening to some fabulous bluegrass music provided by the Country Tones. Once back down the lift chair, we went inside and the boys went ice skating. I thought about going myself, but finally counted about 300 reasons NOT to put the skates on! After a while of sitting, I struck up a conversation with a retired Baptist pastor and his wife who were from Kentucky. What a delightful couple they were and I so enjoyed chatting with them about the things of God. (That reminds me, I need to mail them a couple of CDs later today.) Around 7:30 we started down the mountain and drove back to Pop's Catfish and Chicken in Pigeon Forge. Colton and I ate until we got what I call a "greasy headache". Once back at the hotel, I took the boys swimming again, and then it was bedtime!

Today we woke up, packed, checked out, and drove to Strawberry Plains, TN (east Knoxville area). There is an RV place across the street from the hotel where I made an appointment for in the morning to have the fresh water hose repaired. Let's pray it doesn't cost an arm and a leg to get fixed. I wouldn't want to see Colton or Spencer give up their baseball careers just for an auto repair. Just kidding! We found a bbq place on the side of the road that actually offered seating inside. At first, we didn't know for sure if we could go in. The bbq was very good! A trip to an ATM, and the indoor swimming pool rounded out the afternoon's activities. Tate is taking a much needed nap. Spencer is in the workout room trying to "get into shape" for upcoming football season. He leaves us to go back home next Thursday night, for a month of pre-season practices before football season begins. Colton is upstairs washing everyone's clothes. The reason he's doing it, I am sure, is to get his cell phone back. (It has something to do with what happened at the indoor pool.) Don't they realize there are security cameras nearly everywhere we go in public?

Kim's flight arrives into Knoxville around 7:00 tonight! We are beside ourselves and can't wait to see her mom. Tomorrow I am teaching an all-day music workshop (of which I need to finish up studying for tonight), and I'm sure the boys will have things planned with friends in Knox-vegas, and Kim will probably hit a mall with a girlfriend.

Long days and late nights...

2008-07-24T00:14:00.002-04:00

It has been a long but wonderful day for all of us. We ran some errands, got fresh haircuts, and I ate my first hamburger of the summer at Five Guys. I must say it was very good, but tonight I am paying the price. Okay, enough about that. A stop by the Verizon store really brought the boys down when they found out that upgrades would cost way too much, and they need to keep their current phones. Of course, somehow that was all pinned on me and I was the blame for Verizon's rules. Oh well.
Not only am I the bad guy when it comes to phones, I am the poster child for bad haircuts. This cut is the absolute worst cut I've ever seen! Not only for myself, it is the worst cut ever given to a human being! After finding a mall parking lot to snooze in, we pulled the shades and got some shut-eye. Then it was time to go to church, so we visited a nearby church that Colton wanted to visit. It was nice to have the night off. Then a trip to Cracker Barrel was on the agenda. We've renamed our Tom Tom GPS to Jim Jim because its in great need of an update but I'm too cheap to pay the $70 for one. I'd rather buy a new GPS anyway. Jim Jim took us through some winding roads that were very foggy and scary. We finally made it back to Pigeon Forge and instead of checking into a hotel room, we cranked up the generator and everyone is asleep except me (since I'm typing this blog), and Colton who is talking to someone in another time zone about camps or something. I predict he will be Mr. Grumpy in the morning. I hear the pillow calling my name! Later...

A Change of Plans

2008-07-22T19:58:00.003-04:00

To ad-lib is one of the most exciting things in music whether it is playing an instrument or singing. Sometimes our plans simply change. And the ability to go with the flow is important. I love being around those kind of people. So, today we had a change of plans and decided to ad-lib a bit.

Instead of playing in Asheville this week, God knew we simply needed some time in the Gatlinburg area. Doesn't every American family need a getaway to the smokies every once in a while? (I'm going to use my time here to finish up some very important work details for some future ministry opportunities.) We took our time driving over the mountains and enjoyed the afternoon scenic route. I surprised the boys by checking us in at the Grand Resort in Pigeon Forge. They are loving the inside pool and jacuzzi that is practically inside the lobby. Our room is literally across the hallway from all of the action. After they swam a while, we then went across the street for some of Corky's ribs! Enough said.

The AYCE (all-u-can-eat) ribs at Corky's did us in. Just let me say that whenever Spencer is eating, and I mean eating pretty anything... no one sitting nearby is safe! Most of his food fails to reach his mouth. He is famous for spilling his drinks, and the drinks of others. He is the master of the no-napkin approach to dining. And especially with bbq, people sitting within a 4 table radius are in some amount of danger, though it may vary. I videoed him tonight and hopefully, I can get it posted soon. In addition to him attempting to "feed the world" with only his meal, he then continually asks others (mostly myself) for bites off of their plate. At the end of the meal, we all had put a major hurting on Corky's inventory.

I'm ready for bed already and it is only 8:30 pm! Haha Tomorrow we'll probably go enjoy Gatlinburg, and try to gain access at the NASCAR park in Sevierville (remember we were banned from the NASCAR park in Concord, NC), and from there ... I have no idea what we'll be doing. I need to pick Kim up at the Knoxville airport Friday night, and that is the most anticipated event of the week! Today is the day that both Colton and Spencer become eligible for cell phone upgrades, and they are being so sweet! I hardly recognize either of them, except for Spencer's eating habits. It is definitely Spencer.

Did someone say "Cheap Gas"?

2008-07-22T01:12:00.002-04:00

I heard recently that Tuesday is the best day of the week to fill up your tank. I'm not sure if that is true, but I hope it is true tomorrow. Spencer saw a BP today that had regular gasoline for $3.89 per gallon. We are leaving the Asheboro, NC area in the morning. It has been so wonderful to be here. The churches are fantastic! The pastors and congregations are so kind to us. The food is yummy. But the temperature was 99 today. It is time to leave! Haha

I have an admission to make. I've been having difficulty getting to sleep at night. I do alright once I fall asleep but it is the staying up late that is concerning me. This thing called "vision" is taking me over. It consumes my every thought. It's all I can talk about lately. I'm amazed how even the gal taking my order at Xaxby's seems interested in me going on and on about what God has in store for my life. All I can say at this moment is that God is putting some pieces of my life's puzzle back to together again. And I'm believing the revised version is going to be incredible!

Well, I'm getting tired. I guess I need to start blogging during the afternoons. Maybe I will let Colton drive tomorrow while I blog. On second thought... that isn't a good idea.

Mondays = Play Day

2008-07-21T11:58:00.002-04:00

TGIM! Thank goodness its Monday. We are all moving slow this morning. Yesterday was totally awesome! Great things are happening with our family and ministry. My mind was racing last night so fast I couldn't get to sleep. So I did some computer work and decided to sleep in until 8:30 this morning. We're planning a run to Wal-Mart, the bank, a couple of more errands, and then taking some friends to dinner tonight. They were kind enough to let us plug in for several days and loaned a vehicle to get around in, so we could minister in the area. It is nice to have friends isn't it? Tonight we plan on doing The Mayflower, my favorite seafood place in North Carolina!

Tomorrow we plan on pulling out and heading toward the mountains enroute to Gatlinburg/Knoxville area. I've cancelled in Asheville for the middle of the week. I think we'll look for a nice state park and settle in... maybe even busting out the Smokey Joe grill right out of the box! Can you say Steak-Fest?!?!

This is the day... that the Lord has made!

2008-07-20T08:05:00.004-04:00

Sundays are always exciting! We live for the weekends is a line I've often used in describing ministry opportunities. Even though I realize that everyday counts in the eyes of God, and we should always strive to do our best each day of the week, it is Sunday where people seem to focus more on the things of the Lord... unbelievers and believers alike. And on that note, let me tell you the energy and excitement this morning in the motorhome is that of Super Bowl Sunday! There is an anticipation in all our hearts. Some of it may be that we've been off since Wednesday and taken some much needed "play time". But I have to believe that it is mostly due to that continual relationship the boys are developing with ministry and God. They know that today they will have a chance to make a difference in the lives of someone besides themselves... and somewhere along the way, they too, can have their lives changed forever. Wow! Enough of the deep stuff! I had better make sure everyone is dressed, fed, and prepared before we leave for service.

We made it back to the MH after a wonderful Hibatchi Grill experience! It is nap time for the boys, but I wanted to add to today's blog before it gets too late. All of the excitement we felt this morning while getting ready for service was for a very good reason. It is always exciting to see people experience God's presence!!! We had a wonderful, deep move of God during the worship hour today. I spoke to the congregation on the subject of worship and relationship. The two really do go hand in hand you know. I gave away free CDs today and it felt so good! I asked the congregation to give them to someone this afternoon, as a way of inviting them to the concert tonight! God's people are always so nice to be around. We met some wonderful people today after service. I'm thankful my boys are getting to see another side of ministry, God's kingdom, and a world filled with people who are hurting, lonely, and in need of answers for their lives. I know that answer, and His name is Jesus.

We are missing mommy very badly! I can't wait to see Kim Friday night in Knoxville, TN! I'll try to have the clothes all washed and taken care of before she arrives, so we all can have some quality time together... outside of going to a laundromat.

It is 12:17 AM and all is quiet in the MH (except Colton is under the covers up top, still texting.) He thinks I can't see the light from his phone. In spite of his "teen ways", he is a good kid who loves the work of the Lord and has a huge heart for God. Spencer impressed me tonight, right before bedtime, as I found him reading his New International Kids Bible on his own decision. Tate crashed hard! He is truly living a rock star life on the road. The little man overdosed on ice cream at CookOut. For those of you who aren't familiar with CookOut, NC folks are crazy about it. We all ordered bbq plates which included NC style bbq, hushpuppies, fries, slaw, and a drink... all for the whopping price of $3.99!!! I thought if CD sales ever dwindle and I had to, I could order 40 bbq plates in the drive through, take them to the concert and offer them as a post-concert meal, while selling them for at least $8-$9! Unbelievable!

Oh before I forget, I saw some teenage boys at the door tonight during intermission. They appeared to be undecided whether to come on in or keep walking down the sidewalk. So I walked outside with my guitar and took their requests. After playing "Crazy Train" by Ozzy (on my mind earlier in the blog), and "Carry On My Wayward Son" by Kansas, they chose to come in with me. Then we cranked it up a notch and plain 'ole rocked while playing songs about JESUS! They seemed to enjoy the rest of the concert, and I believe they'll be back to visit the church again. Ramseur, NC has been a delight to visit! It reminds me of Mayberry. And not because Gomer was in the audience tonight. Just kidding. It felt so good there tonight, I didn't want to leave that place. The boys seem to be catching on to the idea of ministry, and are coming to understand that the Kingdom is bigger than just one set of city limits. I see some progress being made. G'nite

Saturdays...

2008-07-19T12:07:00.004-04:00

I've been on the phone with a friend from Nashville (who shall remain nameless) all morning... so I haven't written anything on the blog. It occurs to me that it should be against the law for some people to operate a computer, especially in Tennessee.

Alrighty, we finally got cleaned up and hung out this afternoon with the pastor of the church we are singing at tomorrow and tomorrow night. I'm falling in love with Xaxby's! I love their buffalo flavor... everything on the menu is great!

After dinner we came back to the trailor and was challenged by Colton and Spencer to a game of basketball. After pastor and I beat them like a drum 11-1, they unashamedly asked for a best-of-3 series. We knew we could dominate them at any time, so we began to shoot ourselves out of the next game. It was close but we lost 9-11. Since we played in street clothes and the boys were in gym clothing, I must admit we were at a disadvantage. But with experience on our side, we completely dominated them, beating them like little girls to the tune of 11-2. I can't wait to share the scores with the congregation tomorrow morning as I introduce the boys. He who has the microphone, has all the power! Haha I just hope I can get out of bed in the morning without having to crawl on my hands and knees. It is going to be an Advil kind of night. I love being the "Larry Bird/Jackie Moon" of Pentecost.

Living for the Weekend!

2008-07-18T14:03:00.002-04:00

Another Friday has arrived! Today is a lazy day for the most part. We need to wash clothes and I'm putting that chore off until later in the day. We are meeting a pastor and his family for dinner later this evening. The boys' activities today include shooting basketball, watching videos, practicing the music, eating, wrestling, and complaining of being bored.

I've been doing some computer work today and reminded of God's goodness and His unlimited blessings in my life. The wheels are turning as to the direction my life is taking. I'm excited about all the possibilities that are in store for our family. I am praying for God's perfect will in our lives. Please help me pray for a more clear understanding of His plan for my life, and for us to make the right decisions. From today's phone calls, emails, and conversations, I have been encouraged and reminded that God is at work not only in my life, but in the lives of many of my friends. I want to become Kingdom minded. I desire a servant's heart. I want to reach the world with God's message of hope, love, and peace. I'm very appreciative of the gifts He has given us. I have been so blessed to have such a loving and close family, and to be surrouned by so many wonderful friends who are "real". I don't have time for fakes. I have no desire to be around those who choose to go through the motions in service unto God. No more playing around. It is time to become all we can be... in Christ.

Leaks!!!

2008-07-17T07:12:00.004-04:00

I woke up early this morning to find what appears to be a leak somewhere in the bathroom, either around the toilet or the shower. The carpet outside the doorway is wet and it must be repaired. So, I am going to unplug things and head toward the RV service center while the boys are still sleeping. Maybe they will take a walk-in customer and get us taken care of so we can continue enjoying our summer! Say a prayer for us today... More later

$85 later the leak is repaired. I am amazed there is a two week wait for RV service. I'm even more amazed at how they took me in as the first customer of the day. And I'm even more amazed at the great conversation I had with the young man who repaired our leak. It seems there was a leak in the toilet. It also seems there are many people in the world who are hurting, who suffer from past setbacks in their lives, people who are reaching out for help from someone who may possibly have an answer to their lives. My answer is Jesus. This young man just lost his dad to a heart attack at the age of 55. I just lost my mother in April. We both shared our hearts, and simply talking about things sometimes is a great help. He seemed sympathetic to us since we travel and help churches out with their music. (I guess I would feel sorry for me too. Ha!) All in all, God had his reasons for allowing me to procrastinate until today to get the leak repaired. My path crossed with a hurting individual who may come hear us play this weekend. More than that, he might connect with a local church here that can offer him some help, and understanding to life's dissapointments. We are all on a journey to find peace, joy, and happiness for our lives.

A side-trip to Wal-Mart was successful to the tune of $50. That will hold us for a while. As I sit here typing this blog, a fan is blowing in the back near the bathroom to dry the carpet. Colton is sitting beside me singing falsetto (worse than the Bee Gees), which is more annoying than you could ever imagine. Spencer is playing his 357,472,891th game of the summer on Xbox. Tate is... oh my goodness! Where is Tate?!?!

We finally found Tate and got everyone to dinner on time. The bishop's wife made for us, are you ready for this? Barbeque chicken, cream style corn, buttered rice, lima beans, homemade biscuits, sweet tea, and to top it all off... peach cobbler with vanilla ice cream!!! Aren't you feeling sorry for us now? I can count on probably less than 4 or 5 fingers, no, probably on two fingers (now that my mom is passed away) of people I know who make homemade biscuits. Is it a lost art? It is a dying talent. Pause... I just re-read the list of items we had for supper! Amazing!

After the boys got showered and straightened up the RV, I went next door to our friend Nate Whitley's rv and spent some quality time with him discussing life's goals and making a difference in the lives of others. It is very refreshing to meet a young person (28 years old) who is filled with passion, and talent to go with it. I believe you'll be hearing of great things coming from the life of Nate Whitley. He is an incredible speaker, and full of energy. (He is an awesome drummer too!) Colton just informed me that tomorrow is "wash day". I had better get to bed and rest up for tomorrow's activities.

Another Hump-Day

2008-07-16T17:50:00.003-04:00

We made it to Asheboro, NC today and everyone is getting ready for a concert tonight. After some problems with our MH hookup, we are finally ready to clean up and tune up. The boys had a great time in Concord! It was wonderful to have mom with us as well. She flew home Monday afternoon and we're missing her already.

Since then though, we've just about overdosed on the shopping malls! Nearby Charlotte has a wonderful mall called South Park, and the Concord Mills Outlet has the always-popular NASCAR go-cart attraction! We were lucky since yesterday was buy 1 get 1 free day! Alrighty! On the last ride of the night, Spencer was banned for life from all NASCAR attractions. A combination of wreckless driving and his boxers showing out of his pants all day long (even in NC) warranted the ban.

I'll write more tonight. After the concert we will go eat somewhere, and then hit a Wal-Mart Supercenter for some groceries and other goodies.

The concert went great and the boys outdid themselves! They're becoming quite the traveling band. A regular Jonas Brothers! (especially Tate) Our friend Evangelist Nate Whitley was in town and sat in with us on drums. Not only is he an outstanding evangelist, he can tear up a drum kit! It's always good to play with guest musicians. Chili's was still open by the time we got around to eating. The buffalo chicken fajitas are becoming my favorite! For some reason we hadn't eaten since lunch time. Oh yeah, we haven't made a run to Wal-Mart yet for groceries. Tomorrow will be dedicated to washing clothes, buying groceries, etc.

Hotel Checkout

2008-07-14T10:53:00.001-04:00

I am convinced it would be easier to...

This was my opening sentence to the blog on Monday morning. As you can imagine, the chaos that filled our hotel room was maximized so, that my mind was completely jumbled to the point I couldn't even finish the opening sentence.

And now that I've had a couple of days to look back to those moments... I remember so vividly as to the reason I left the blog empty, until now. Lucky Kim. She was able to fly home Monday afternoon, while I am stuck here with the boys. Just kidding! It isn't that bad at all. We're just making memories... and Kim will join us in Knoxville next Friday for a wonderful weekend together in the Gatlinburg area. I can't wait!

Sunday - The Lord's Day

2008-07-13T08:19:00.004-04:00

7:30 AM arrived sooner than I expected!!! We are all very tired and still recovering from last night's concert. But we know that great things are waiting for us this morning. Everyone's getting ready and dressed, and the guitars will be tuned pretty soon. Then it will be time for a God moment!

I can see myself either passing on lunch altogether, or just hitting a drive-thru on the way back to the hotel where my pillows and soft mattress awaits me for at least a 3 hour Sunday afternoon nap. I'll keep you updated. Meanwhile, I hope everyone has a wonderful Sunday morning service and enjoys time spent with your family and friends.

So much for a drive-thru lunch. A bunch of people went to Texas Roadhouse Grill and by the time we got back to the room, we only have about an hour before rehearsal. I also never knew Willie Nelson owns that restaurant. (At least that is what I am told.) I am so tired! Which was more important? Lunch or sleep? Time will tell...

Tonight's service was a blowout! The boys did great playing the music. I can really see a lot of progress in their musicianship. All except that Tate fell asleep on the stage and knocked over Spencer's guitar. I was afraid it was one of the other musicians' $2,600 Taylor acoustic guitar. I heard the noise but was afraid to turn around and look. During the message, Tate sat by me off to the side, up in the choir loft. He fell asleep about 10 minutes into the sermon. Kids can be so cute. Tate is the life of the party! Everyone just adores him. Then again they aren't here as I am typing this blog. It is 11:53 pm, and by the looks of things, he must have drank at least 5 or 6 soft drinks. I can't watch the kids all the time. Ha!

Kim's flight is 4:30 pm tomorrow and we'll miss her badly. She helped us wash clothes, put up with our foolishness, and takes good care of us in many ways. Maybe one last trip to the outlet mall enroute to the airport tomorrow will make her trip complete. Goodnight to all...

Saturday Night Live!

2008-07-13T00:42:00.001-04:00

Today was awesome! The church that hosted tonight's concert also had a huge community carnival in their parking lot today. The boys played and had a wonderful time, especially throwing baseballs at the dunk tank! We had some North Carolina barbeque at Troutman's BBQ for lunch, and I have to admit it was very good. The boys' afternoon naps were brief, and then it was time to get back for a soundcheck.

A special friend of mine Todd Parrot flew in from Albuquerque, NM for the concert. Todd is probably one of the best harmonica players on earth. He is for sure, my favorite. Some people call the harmonica a "french harp". I'll have to research as to why, and let you know the reasoning at a later date. Todd mesmerized the audience with his dazzling performance! It isn't easy following such an extremely talented individual such as Todd Parrot. So I did the most logical thing and made sure about halfway through my set, I included Todd in the rest of my songs. His playing made such an impression on my son Spencer, that he wants to buy a harmonica first thing Monday morning. Also, what makes Todd's playing so special is he is one of the most humble musicians I've ever met. A real talent, unlike those who think they are "all that and more", just because of their last name, or where they live, or who they work for. Real talent speaks for itself. Not only was I delighted to share the stage with Todd Parrot tonight, I was especially thrilled to see my boys also playing with him. Memories. We're just making summertime, life-long memories.

We had a wonderful dinner at Chedder's after the concert with some new friends we met here in Concord. One of the joys of traveling the country is meeting so many new and wonderful people. And of course, all of the young people (my boys included), had their own thing happening... on the opposite side of the restaurant.

Its almost 1:00 am, and the gang are all zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Tomorrow we'll play in both AM and PM services here in Concord. I can't wait! I also can't wait for a couple of days off, starting on Monday!

TGIF

2008-07-11T23:01:00.000-04:00

The title says it all. Today we hit a mall that was many times smaller than the outlet mall we did yesterday. The funny thing is we spent way more money today than yesterday, and I actually got some things for myself. Ha!

Anyway, the pool has too much chlorine in it which means the boys are in the room more often, which means less privacy, more noise, and fewer advil available for the next day. On a brighter note, the rehearsal tonight with the choir went well and we had a blast. Tomorrow there is a carnival at the church, and tomorrow night we'll do a concert. The boys are very excited! They are already meeting many new friends this summer (including girls), and collecting what I guess kids today refer to as "digits". Its a good thing we have unlimited texting right?

Everyone is very tired tonight. So much so that even Zach & Cody isn't even keeping our attention. I guess now would be a good time to say goodnight.

Outlet Mall Outing

2008-07-10T23:17:00.000-04:00

I just need to say that Concord Mills Outlet mall was not prepared for my family today! We had a productive day even before we made it to the mall. After sleeping in later than usual, we finally made it to the laundromat. Mom was kind enough to wash and dry our clothes while we took the motorhome to a carwash to vaccum the inside. The young man said, "Sure, we can get the inside all cleaned up." After 30 minutes of this fellow vaccuming the floors, bathroom, all of the beds, the dining table seats, the sofa, the upper level sleeping area, etc., it was time to pay up. I guess I was so excited the guy agreed to do it for us, I forgot to ask him what the price would be. I pulled out my wallet and heard him say, "That will be $4." I couldn't believe my ears! I paid the $4 and tipped him $25. Walking to the RV, I was feeling guilty after remembering how hot and sweaty I was while standing in the shade watching him do all the work! The boys thought I tipped him too much. I beg to differ.
We dropped off some suits and other clothes at the dry cleaners, and went to pick mom up at the laundromat. She had already finished with most of our clothes. Then we were off to On The Border for some mexican lunch.

After having lunch with our friends, we all made our way to the mall. The women took off on their own, and the men were stuck with the kids. Paying for a round of putt putt for the boys gave us some time to sit at Starbucks and chat a while. After a wonderful afternoon with friends, I hurried back to the hotel to drop Kim, Spencer, and Tate off for some rest. Colton and I went to a 7:00 rehearsal with the band and I must say, I was impressed with Colton's acoustic guitar abilities. The band was using their own drummers and bass player, so Colton picked up an acoustic and quickly joined in with us. Plans are for him to play guitar with me this weekend while doing some vocals as well. It's really nice watching your children involved in music ministry. I believe these summer weeks will stay with them for a very long time.

After rehearsal we had dinner at Logan's Roadhouse, and for some reason the boys thought the peanuts on the floor were for having a peanut throwing war. I quickly informed them of a peanut's proper use. And now, we are back at the hotel, where I will visually scan the room for an update. Mom is reading an Iris Johansen book, Colton is texting only God knows how many people at the same time, while Spencer and Tate are playing ring toss at about 98 decibels. It is 11:37 pm and time for bed. More tomorrow...

Post-Holiday

2008-07-09T12:19:00.000-04:00

I hope everyone had a wonderful July 4th! We're still recovering from our holiday morning laundromat experience, and its time again to wash some clothes. After a few days without internet connection, here we are in blog-world.

Today was the first time I heard someone (unsure who it was) actually say, "I kind of miss being home." That will change though because we're in Concord, NC today through next Monday and we're going to have a rocking time! We need to pick Kim up in an hour at the Charlotte airport and everyone is excited. I promised the boys they could swim at the hotel pool after the airport run, so that means double the excitement! Concord, NC is also home to Concord Mills Outlet Mall which I am told is the #1 tourist attraction in the entire state. (Kim will be thrilled.) To all of my NASCAR friends, all 3 of them, this is where Lowe's Speedway is located.

The boys have experienced some wonderful ministry opportunites so far this summer, which was my main intent in doing something like this. The concerts and services have been anointed and we've seen some positive results. Everyone has been so kind to us and treated us just like family. It is good to see the Kingdom outside our own little box sometimes. This summer will serve as a fresh reminder of just how big God really is. The boys have also met some new friends (of both genders), and the text messages have been at a maximum. All except Tate, who just scribbles his girlfriends' names on his arm with a marker. Have a happy hump-day!

Independence Day!

2008-07-04T21:59:00.001-04:00

I hope everyone had a wonderful July 4th! The boys and I have spent the day at the laundromat washing and drying clothes. (That's the part about touring I failed to mention to them earlier.) After dropping about 8 lbs. inside Super Bubbles Laundromat, we headed for Cici's Pizza. Don't ask me why. I came back and took my annual July 4th afternoon nap. (Not really an annual thing, but it was so good today, I'm considering making it an annual event.) I woke up to the sound of a basketball whizzing by my head in the motorhome, and thought it was time to hit another Barnes and Noble bookstore. A stop by Ruby Tuesday filled up the boys, and now we are in the motorhome surviving the rainstorm that surrounds us outside. Spencer and Tate are under the covers (scared) and watching the movie Parent Trap for the 5th time in a week. Colton is as always texting from the top bunk. And I sit here missing my mom whose birthday was July 4th. I called Kim earlier and she seemed to be missing us a lot. (That's the way I planned it.) She went over to a cookout at some friends house. In the morning, we'll unplug and head toward Wilson, NC for the weekend. There'll be plenty of bbq, basketball, and music there. I loved going to Wilson last summer. More later... but for now, it is lights out!

Happy July 4th!

2008-07-03T21:25:00.000-04:00

Being in Raleigh, NC all week has been wonderful! Our friends the Brantleys welcomed their third child, Andrew Thomas Brantley, into the world. All is well with the baby, mom, and dad. Tomorrow we will probably leave for Wilson (Elm City) which is only an hour away. Wilson is home to the world famous Bill's Barbeque. I hope they are still in business after my visit last year. I took the boys to downtown Raleigh today and we drove by the North Carolina state capital building. They weren't impressed. Nor did they appreciate the effort it took to get down to Cooper's BBQ for lunch. I have to admit, vinegar based barbeque isn't my favorite.

After a run to Target, Chick-fil-a (for ice cream cones), and Guitar Center, it was nap time for Tate and Spencer. After naps it was time for the mall (again). Now we are back in the MH and they show no sign of slowing down. (I do though). We will celebrate the 4th by washing clothes, eating some more bbq, and just enjoying the NC countryside. My mom was born on July 4th, and I'm sure tomorrow will not be an easy day for me. I'll call Kim and get through the day somehow. I hope everyone has a happy July 4th!

Motorhome Excursion

2008-07-02T08:52:00.002-04:00

After allowing last summer to come and go without a family get-a-way, I thought this time around I would do a "summer tour" of sorts. The idea was to simply take the boys with me, and fly Kim in on the weekends when she was able to make it. After mentioning it at dinner with our friends John and Pam, he insisted I take his MH for the duration of the trip. I figured, what is the difference between 10 m.p.g. in my Ford Excursion, and 9.8 m.p.g. in his Ford E350? Another difference of course is the "livibility" of the MH. Its great!

We left Orlando on Friday, June 27th, which happened to be our 21st wedding anniversary. It took 11 hours to drive to Raleigh, NC, including an hour layover at a South Carolina Cracker Barrel. Needing some privacy for the weekend, we checked into a Comfort Suites for a few nights. After a wonderful weekend playing in Raleigh, I took Kim to the airport Monday morning for her return flight to Orlando. I hurried back to the hotel since I promised the boys we would swim before our late checkout at 12:30. Three boys, one meal, and five hours at the local mall was very exciting. NOT! Then we were off to Wal-Mart to stock up for our trip! (Another exciting adventure with the boys.) Finally, we settled in for the night, showered in the MH's extra-spacious shower, and played x-box until bedtime.

Yesterday we slept in, and finally made it to lunch for gyros. I needed to re-string my guitar so we came back to the MH. (About this time I began to notice the lack of room/space in the MH.) My observations led me into taking the boys to play putt-putt, lasar tag, and go-cart racing. I won 2 out of 3 events. Playing lasar tag with Tate hanging onto me and letting him shoot the gun equals defeat. Still, we had a blast! Then we were off to Mayflower, which is a fabulous seafood restaurant located all throughout North Carolina. Another trip to Wal-Mart, and it was time to start settling down.

This morning, I awoke to the sounds of Tate coughing. Two pop tarts and a cup of OJ later, he is fine. Fine enough to be battling Spencer in a game of baseball on the x-box. More later...